she does like him...but she has unsure days...!?Whats the best advice u can give someone........?
Pray and ask God to help you make a decision. Ask God to point you in the right direction.
Six months, and you're unsure? Why are you asking us?Whats the best advice u can give someone........?
Honey, everyone has days where they are ';unsure'; about their relationship. Even married people do.
If she realy likes him, then there should be more good reasons to stay with him than bad reasons. If the bad reasons out weigh the good...then she might want to really think twice about this relationship.
In my experiences, 6 months in a relationship has kinda been the turning point, if you know what I mean. By then, you should really know the person, and who they REALLY are. You know how you feel about them, and if you see a future with that person or not. After six months is when I normally end up breaking up with someone, or having a great long term relationship with them.
I know it sounds kinda dumb, but tell her to make a list. Everything positive about him, or things she likes about him on one side of the paper, and all the negative, or things she dislikes about him on the other side. I've done this before and it has actually really helped me. To see them written out made me realize they were actually there, instead of thinking about it once in a while. I think you can think of more things also. Once you start writing, you get on a roll, and think of many more positive/negative things about that person. And, if you end up with more positive things...the things that you generally don't think of on a day to day basis, makes you appreciate that person even more than you did when you first started.
Good luck, hope she finds what she is looking for.
Everyone has unsure days - even in the happiest of relationships, so what shes feeling is perfectly natural. She needs to address her insecurities and figure out why shes feeling this way though - if its just something of nothing then she shouldnt worry about it, but if its something more - deep down, then she might need to see if she even wants - or is ready to be in a relationship
xx
Hah, this is a weird answer, but I had a friend who was in that position, but realized she really loved him after seeing the movie Blindness. it's because she realized that he was the man she'd want to be with in an extremely adverse situation.
The person in question should ask themselves who they would want by their side at the end of the world or on a desert island.
Sure is impossible.
I got married in 1990.
One day in 1992 she moved out.
One day in 1999 she showed back up.
This is the end of 2008.
I saw her this morning while I was making her coffee and egg sandwich for breakfast.
I have seen her everyday for nine years.
I am not sure of anything.
She may not come home tonight.
She won't tell me if she loves me or not.
The only thing I am sure about is...
I so enjoy the times we have together.
I don't push, I don't expect anything.
I just enjoy what we have.
A very smart 17 year old son that is the leader of the High School Band and is a wonderful piano player. Straight A's in school.
We must be doing something right, but I'm not sure...
i say
that love gets old sometimes maybe the person you have been with for a while bores you is not your true love
if ya look at other guys like ';oh he is cute'; maybe you are finding your mate unattractive (not ugly ,not in that way) in the inside
maybe
i went through the exact same thing except it was seven months. you ask them do you think its worth wasting your time or not? feelings come and go... so you need to look at this from a third persons point of view.
Ah you are a good friend :)
Suggest she tries, if she can, to pin point what makes her feel unsure, and to give it more time. A chat with the guy might help too.
honestly, you just need to sit down and ask if your relationship is going anywhere, if he pauses or takes a min b4 he answers then you have your answer.
I personally would leave the relationship, it depend si suppose if they are a certain person normally or not.
But generally i'd see it as its missing something
end the relationship. how can you love somebody that you are unsure of.
if he did not shout to you all this month you will marry him but if he shout to you this show that you will not marry
If he was the one, you would know, you wouldn't question your feeling for one second..... move on and keep looking for ';the one'; don't waste your time %26amp; your partners if you are unsure
Take some time apart, see how your feelings are then, have no contact for a month.
Is it worth it ?????
Leave him.
Don't spit
: )
Swallow
if theres doubts this early on....
not even in the butterly hunnymoon stage...
its pointless.
';It's alright to lose your heart, but never lose your head';
smoke weed
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