Sunday, August 22, 2010

Whats the best advice for a broken heart?

anything..Whats the best advice for a broken heart?
It will take time. Can't tell you not to dwell on it but the healing process will happen when you have truly accepted that he/she is gone. Good luck!!Whats the best advice for a broken heart?
mend it
Go out...stay out...come home when your eyes are almost half shut....don't look at pictures, don't listen to the radio...call friends visit family and keep your mind busy or you are screwed!
Whatever you do---get busy. Do whatever it is that you like A LOT until you find yourself so golfed in work, recreation, etc. that you forget. Don't think about that person and get rid of their number...but before you do all that....cry...cry and get it over with and promise yourself that once that last tear drops, It's Over!
Honey, first thing is to get your mind off of your love life. That is essential for getting over a broken heart.





One word of caution though, it takes a long long time. Find a hobby, or event or activity that will fill up your schedule which makes you concentrate. This way you will be thinking of the activity rather than your loss. You might even find that you are smiling and having a good time from time to time.





Also try to do it with some friends, as this makes the ';getting over'; process a bit easier. Try to avoid talking about the situation as i am sure you have probably talked a great deal so far. Talking will only make you sadder, because you will remember every single detail of the relationship and feel hurt again.





I do not recommend this right away, but the last thing is to find someone else to concentrate on. A new bf is probably not the best thing for you right now, but perhaps you can become a ';big sister'; at your local boys and girls club. If you see the sorts of problems some others are going through, perhaps you will see your problems are not as bad. (just a thought).





It wont be easy dear, but eventually you will get over it. For me it took 2 years after my first engagement broke up. Just remember, you are not alone.





Take care and good luck
It's not going to be easy. Only time will heal your broken heart. Try not to focus so much on what has your heart like that. Don't bring up memories.
forgeting about it
Just hang with friends. Have fun. Life is short. Enjoy it.





P.S. Chocolate can't hurt. :]





Good Luck
hello I am here to tell you one thing don't let your heart stay broken because if not mended quickly you will soon discover that there will appear a scar on your memory and life.
Cry and eat chocolate and ice cream. Have a all girls night where you make voodoo dolls of the person and burn his pictures.


Then get out everyday and have fun. Stay busy and don't think about them. Don't watch romance movies or read love novels.


Just stay busy. Do things you've always wanted to and make him regret not liking you. Get your hair done or have a total spa day! Take care of yourself and find someone new.


Someone out there loves you and you will find him, just give it time. Good luck!
do some thing with your time
The best advice is that other ppl know how you feel. I'm there right with y0u. there is really nothing you can do about a broken heart, just stay strong, encourage your self to get back out there in do time, take same you time. the healing process is the hardest part of it, that and moving on. give your self time :-) it will all work out in the end.
i know it is hard with a broken heart because it.. i 've been there before . just give it your heart time to heal . give to god .





pray about it . because he will never break you heart god will





heal that broken heart he will love you for the rest of your life .





that the best love you could have found.

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