Tuesday, August 24, 2010

As a man what is the best advice you would give a woman?

Be yourself!!!!








It's a real turn on to find a women, who knows what she wants and isn't afraid to ask for it!As a man what is the best advice you would give a woman?
Don't be picky but be picky. Lighten up a bit.As a man what is the best advice you would give a woman?
Depends on what advice!!
be able to sincerely have fun anywhere you go





I used to go out with a girl that made me miserable when we went to sporting events....she would BEG to go with me then ruin it for me.....or hang out with my friends and want to leave because nobody was talking to her





That chick was so pretty, but so damn self centered and annoying .....





I at least put on a happy face hanging out with all her gay male friends and her over shopped spoiled friends
there are so many!! come straight out and said what you really mean and feel. stop all this drama mess..that is my one of my top advise to give to a woman.
Don't be shy on a date or on other occasion i and many oter men HATE that
Look after your hair - it's your crowning glory as far as appearances go.





I heard a woman say that to her daughter and I have no better advice to give.
Keep breathing for as long as you can.
Understand where he is coming from and take into consideration the pressure he may be under with his working life, but also he must understand that he must give and take as well
never have sex on first date
relax and enjoy being a woman and accept men for what they are
to always be honest about things...don't play the date game and do things that you really don't like just to keep the guy coming back...and then once you get married you stop doing those things all of a sudden they become gross or sick that you use to do...just be honest from the start about everything...and this goes for guys too...
It depends on what she needs advice for. Whatever it was I'd be completely honest with her.
It is ok to have sex with men on the first night you meet them. It is natural.
As a man ......... illl say tht enjoy all wat u do........


n yh hv respect for urself n the guy u r with he will respect u ....








dnt jst submit urself to him on the bed,,,,,,,,,,, hv respect for ur body ............ n u will soon know tht he was with u for ur body or he rly loves u





tk cr
I would give the best advice I could to any question and be honest.





Always make sure you let people know you are going.


Always make sure you don't walk home alone.

I just got engaged last night! What websites have the best ideas/planners/advice?

Actually, I get the best advice here in the Weddings section of Yahoo! Answers =) Generally, people here always provide sincere answers ~ and looking through questions others have posted have given me a ton of ideas.





Good luck planning and CONGRATS! =)I just got engaged last night! What websites have the best ideas/planners/advice?
Congratulations!!! What a fun date to get engaged on, I'm happy for you!





I also recommend TheKnot.com, and I'm not sure if UltimateWedding.com is still around, but they have a bunch of articles and a forum that I practically lived on for a while :-P





I hope you stick around here and browse, it's full of ideas and questions other brides have had, and you can garner a lot of knowledge from it :-)





Have you picked a date yet? :-)I just got engaged last night! What websites have the best ideas/planners/advice?
congrats. Try theknot.com. weddingchannel.com those are both good websites. Also when you register sites like bedbathandbeyond and macys.com have wedding planning tools. and definitely go to as many bridal shows as you can go to you get a lot of good ideas.
theknot.com is the best. you can make your own to-do lists and wedding website too.
therealmav@comcast.net
congrats! you must be ecstatic! i remember when i got engaged, it was like i was on a different planet. lol.


some great sites:





www.herecomestheguide.com





www.theknot.com





www.projectwedding.com





www.getmarried.com





www.brides.com





www.onewed.com





www.yahoo.com ( answers)





www.weddingchannel.com





www.decidio.com





i think thats it, but if i think of more i'll send it to you
I found www.theknot.com has given me a lot of ideas. Also- something else I came across- www.fireyourweddingplanner.com I get emails sent to me-I haven't bought the book, but the emails are GREAT, and help you save some money along the way! So please do check it out!





goodluck! enjoy being engaged :) I'm getting married 08/30/08 on our 4 yr anniversary :)
Hello dear!


Congratulations!


Please, allow me an advice further and higher to your question: Let yourselves make it a unique event! Enjoy each another and forget what the society wants you to follow. Follow your heart! Do what is good for you not for the masses!
The knot.com is tops.
TheKnot.com is great! All my friends use it, and they actually make a book/planner that my sister is currently using!
I'm not sure what location you're in, but check out www.brideboard.com if you're in the NYC area. It has great resources and a ton of vendor listings with reviews. GOOD LUCK!!
The knot! Congrats! That website has been a serious help for me, so far. There is a lot to do, but just pace yourself! I am slowly knocking things out one by one, as opposed to doing it all in the end. Enjoy!
Check out theknot.com





The part that is probably the most useful are the 'knottie bios'. These are real stories and reviews from brides (mostly) and grooms (a few).





Whenever I want to learn more about something (photographer for example) I search 'wedding photography (city) knottie bio'
You got engaged on 11-11??!!!!!!!!





SO DID I !!!!!!





Congratulations!!


Well, I am starting out..by planning the date and the dress..everything after that will all fall into place!
check out ehell.com.. it will help you a TON with what not to do.. and CONGRATS!
Congrats!! Check out theknot.com :) and have fun! It'll fly by!
Register with JcPenny and you will get a free wedding planner..all you need to do is register with 15 items and print off your list and go up to your local JcPenny's to pick it up. Mine has been a big help it has everything in it that you are going to need. Brides.com and Theknot.com and weddingchannel.com are all good websites to register with as well. Groom411.com is a good one to have your future husband look at.





Have fun and Good luck!
TheKnot!
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Whats the best advice you've ever gotten about life?

'Everyone dies, but not everyone, truly, lives.'Whats the best advice you've ever gotten about life?
your going to die.Whats the best advice you've ever gotten about life?
To forgive others and yourself. We will all make mistakes but true happiness comes by not letting regret weigh down your heart.
Be happy, find someone you love and loves you and my favorite. ';never take yourself to seriously, yeah take your job, and your loved ones but never yourself';
Zip your fly
Life is too short for what ifs.





What you look like and what you feel inside are the same thing.





Ten years from, you will look back and regret the things that you haven't done.





Good things come when you least expect them to.





If you are in a bad relationship, you're much better off without that person.
Live the life you love, and love the the life you live.
Honestly. Everyday since I was saved by Grace.
';Immortality is not living forever, it is living ON forever.';
treat others the way you want to be treated
Dont regret what you do itll just make u feel bad and theres no way to solve it, love what you do and do what you love... you are YOUR most important thing if it wasnt for you then you wouldnt have a life.
LIfe is like a box of chocolates...etc etc...
Tomorrow is another day. So, whatever happened today--no matter how bad--there's still tomorrow, assuming you don't die anyway.





Without some semblance of hope, life is meaningless.
never take any wooden nickels.
Treat others as you would want to be treated.
Don't constantly pick things in the future to look forward too. One day you'll look back and everything has been a series of moments waiting for other moments. Enjoy every day for what it is.
kill em all and let god sort em out
Well, i havent gotten any, but my advice is Life is what YOU make it, so dont be a stick-in-the-mud, have a good attitude. Just follow your dreams, and soon, everything might fall into place. :] :]
I once had a really important person in my life tell me to not care as much about money, success, etc. She told me to enjoy life to the fullest and let the rest fall in God's hands. I am much happier now that I have listened to her.
if something was meant to happen, then it will happen.
stay away from drugs, STDs and jealous chicks
Dont take it for granted. It is not as long as you think.
LIVE life. And if it feels good, do it. And Don't eat yellow snow.
don't dwell on the past, or the people in it. they didn't make it to your future for a reason.. :]
Learn to accept your situation in life, if you can't accept it, then change it for the better.





If you can't change your situation, be as positive as you can, because you will wear yourself to the ground trying to change something that will not.





Be good to other people, and they will be good to you. Even if they're not, still rise above it and be the better person.
Don't be afraid to make mistakes. That is how we all learn in life. By making mistakes! :) So don't beat yourself up if you make one. Accept it, learn from it, and move on!
Love is the only game where you put in a nickel and get out a quarter. Its got the greatest highs and the lowest lows, but its the only game in town.





The heart means the most. Superficial outside stuff is just that.





Dare to take the path of hard work and discipline - a path that leads somewhere.





Youth is wasted on the young.





Where human beings are concerned - everything is messy.
';Life is a garden, Dig it!';





-Joe Dirt
paraphrasing what someone told me.





you're smarter and prettier and nicer than you think. stop thinking of yourself you idiot! you have the rest of the world that will need you.
That it isn't fair - accept it and get over it.
You are nothing.

Whats the best advice to get a boy to notice you?

You have to be yourself, be confident, always look your best. Dont be loud or giggly to get attention. If you are his type then he will notice you without much effort on your part. It is also very important not to appear standoffish or stuck up (unapproachable)


Good luck~ and if all else fails find a reason to say something to hhim...Good Luck!Whats the best advice to get a boy to notice you?
drop your pantiesWhats the best advice to get a boy to notice you?
wear a miniskirt, be confident and smile
give a sweet confident smile and laugh as hard as u can with your friends when he is around

Whats the best advice u can give someone........?

who is unsure of there relationship with a guy they've been seeing 6 months.





she does like him...but she has unsure days...!?Whats the best advice u can give someone........?
Pray and ask God to help you make a decision. Ask God to point you in the right direction.





Six months, and you're unsure? Why are you asking us?Whats the best advice u can give someone........?
Honey, everyone has days where they are ';unsure'; about their relationship. Even married people do.





If she realy likes him, then there should be more good reasons to stay with him than bad reasons. If the bad reasons out weigh the good...then she might want to really think twice about this relationship.





In my experiences, 6 months in a relationship has kinda been the turning point, if you know what I mean. By then, you should really know the person, and who they REALLY are. You know how you feel about them, and if you see a future with that person or not. After six months is when I normally end up breaking up with someone, or having a great long term relationship with them.





I know it sounds kinda dumb, but tell her to make a list. Everything positive about him, or things she likes about him on one side of the paper, and all the negative, or things she dislikes about him on the other side. I've done this before and it has actually really helped me. To see them written out made me realize they were actually there, instead of thinking about it once in a while. I think you can think of more things also. Once you start writing, you get on a roll, and think of many more positive/negative things about that person. And, if you end up with more positive things...the things that you generally don't think of on a day to day basis, makes you appreciate that person even more than you did when you first started.





Good luck, hope she finds what she is looking for.
Everyone has unsure days - even in the happiest of relationships, so what shes feeling is perfectly natural. She needs to address her insecurities and figure out why shes feeling this way though - if its just something of nothing then she shouldnt worry about it, but if its something more - deep down, then she might need to see if she even wants - or is ready to be in a relationship


xx
Hah, this is a weird answer, but I had a friend who was in that position, but realized she really loved him after seeing the movie Blindness. it's because she realized that he was the man she'd want to be with in an extremely adverse situation.





The person in question should ask themselves who they would want by their side at the end of the world or on a desert island.
Sure is impossible.


I got married in 1990.


One day in 1992 she moved out.


One day in 1999 she showed back up.


This is the end of 2008.


I saw her this morning while I was making her coffee and egg sandwich for breakfast.


I have seen her everyday for nine years.


I am not sure of anything.


She may not come home tonight.


She won't tell me if she loves me or not.


The only thing I am sure about is...


I so enjoy the times we have together.


I don't push, I don't expect anything.


I just enjoy what we have.


A very smart 17 year old son that is the leader of the High School Band and is a wonderful piano player. Straight A's in school.


We must be doing something right, but I'm not sure...
i say


that love gets old sometimes maybe the person you have been with for a while bores you is not your true love





if ya look at other guys like ';oh he is cute'; maybe you are finding your mate unattractive (not ugly ,not in that way) in the inside





maybe
i went through the exact same thing except it was seven months. you ask them do you think its worth wasting your time or not? feelings come and go... so you need to look at this from a third persons point of view.
Ah you are a good friend :)





Suggest she tries, if she can, to pin point what makes her feel unsure, and to give it more time. A chat with the guy might help too.
honestly, you just need to sit down and ask if your relationship is going anywhere, if he pauses or takes a min b4 he answers then you have your answer.
I personally would leave the relationship, it depend si suppose if they are a certain person normally or not.





But generally i'd see it as its missing something
end the relationship. how can you love somebody that you are unsure of.
if he did not shout to you all this month you will marry him but if he shout to you this show that you will not marry
If he was the one, you would know, you wouldn't question your feeling for one second..... move on and keep looking for ';the one'; don't waste your time %26amp; your partners if you are unsure
Take some time apart, see how your feelings are then, have no contact for a month.
Is it worth it ?????
Leave him.
Don't spit





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Swallow
if theres doubts this early on....


not even in the butterly hunnymoon stage...





its pointless.
';It's alright to lose your heart, but never lose your head';
smoke weed
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  • Whan can be the best free advice?

    Hi, Lucky,


    ';You don't have to make your life perfect.... Just try to make it as good as you can.... Focus on both the present and the future.. while not forgetting your past... A little hedonism a day.. keeps the doctor away.... ;) ... You're smart enough to achieve all your goals with a healthy dose of effort.... Happiness can often be found in : making others happy.... :) ';


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    My regards!Whan can be the best free advice?
    Thanks, to the voters!;)





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    And Lucky, ';Good Luck'; ;)

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    Whan can be the best free advice?
    This above all else, to thine own self, be true.
    DON'T BELIEVE IN ANY FREE ADVICE, FOLLOW UR OWN INSTINCTS
    look up ';experts'; on the net.





    There is a website that gives free advice.
    Never ask a question you do not want answered.
    have a drink and relax the show will go on
    DONT ASK FOR ONE
    Treat others as you would want them to treat you. Never tell a lie.
    The type that comes with free batteries attached.
    When you want the specific advice as much as you need to breath, that advice, will be the best advice.

    ITunes Help! Best advice, 10 points?

    I have a Windows Vista computer that is a 64 bit operating system. I downloaded the regular iTunes (32 bit), then the 64 bit. But the 64 bit won't run since I downloaded the normal iTunes already. I tried to uninstall everything and just download the 64 bit, but it won't run. What do I do? Please help. Thank youITunes Help! Best advice, 10 points?
    I don't know if there is a known issue between any 32 or 64 bit versions of iTunes.





    I have Windows Vista Ultimate and iTunes version 8.2 will not run on it. My iTunes software update manager pulled down the 8.2 update and I agreed to let it install it, but little did I know that there is a known issue with iTunes 8.2 and Windows Vista.





    The solution was to uninstall iTunes 8.2 and download and re-install iTunes 8.0.





    Version 8.0 works just fine on Vista





    Hope this helps. :)





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    Whats the best advice anyone has ever given you?

    The best advice I ever got was ';never turn down a free meal';Whats the best advice anyone has ever given you?
    Just do it. Corny but true.Whats the best advice anyone has ever given you?
    Best advice I ever got was from my grandfather on my wedding day. He pulled me aside and told me he'd been married for 53 years and the one thing he learned was that the woman is the man of the family.





    Words to live by.
    Don't count your chickens till they hatch.
    ';Always wear clean underwear, you never know when your going to get in an accident.';
    Love with all your heart.


    Live for your hearts desire.





    I follow this advice to the letter everyday, if you don't follow your heart it will be hard to find true happiness.
    ';Don't jump out of the frying pan only to jump into the fire.';
    Never trust a preacher!





    This mule is SO stubborn! The sun is SO hot! This ground is SO hard! I believe the Lord is calling me to preach!
    Free meal doesn't exist
    You never truly know someone until you divorce them.
    ';It's better to give than to receive.';--My mother always told me this,and I must say that I do enjoy being a generous person.
    treat people the way u would like to be treated.
    The best advice I have ever been given was that theyt said it ';I rather Be hated for who I am, then loved who I'm not';


    and I have lived up to that ever since
    learn from other peoples mistakes, you won't live long enough to make them all yourself--from my dad.
    keep your legs closed until marriage
    Don't take advise from anybody
    when in doubt throw it out
    To make ur own mind up and not be influenced by others
    ';Don't f**k that hoe...she has STD's';
    find Jesus
    never take wooden nickles and always smell the milk
    don't talk to stranger
    ';You can't chase someone who is coming your way.';
    Life is to short to just let it slip away .. take full advantage of what short life we all have...
    Hey, watch out, don't step in that dog poo.


    Sure saved my new Chuck Taylors!! :)
    Treat other people the way you want to be treate. There are others but this one hits the nail on the head
    get a divorce. police were tired of coming to my rescue and i felt bad that it had to happen
    the beuty of grace is it makes live not fair
    The experienced traveler always carries his coat and never misses the chance to eat or to go to the restroom.
    but a bag over my face and the babies will stop crying
    Hey! I got it!.. this comes from my dad's best friend, a factoryworker: ';Back up til ya hear 'glass!''; Kool, huh? (give me the l0 points.) mel
    the fewer people you know the less trouble you'll have

    What was the best piece of dating advice that you ever got?

    My father always told me to treat a lady like lady,


    what about you? what sort of advice did you get?





    Ta very much for answering.What was the best piece of dating advice that you ever got?
    keep ur knickers on - I dont want to be a granny at 40What was the best piece of dating advice that you ever got?
    Put a raincoat on it! - Not actually to me, but to one of my friends by his dad.





    Most of my advice I've learned from experiences, but one thing that stuck with me is something my mother told me. She said if you drop a girl off at their house, and you don't walk them to their door, don't drive off until they get into the house. One time a girl I took home was locked out of her house so I ended up taking her home with me and she spent the night.
    If you date someone, treat her like she is the most important lady in the world...be focused and don't look on the negative side..be positive....and be entertaining as possible but don't over talk she might misunderstood and think you are a gay...God luck on your date.
    ...that your Husband is now your Best friend.... Respect him and when you fight over something dont let it go on for a day ... never go to bed mad , talk thing thro, if there are things to say !


    %26amp;


    The Best Room in your House is now your Bedroom .





    lol !
    Looking a girl in the eyes from across the room will always cuts the bullshit. I do it all the time at the bar. Some girls call it sex eyes, it works I think it's a Latin thing.





    O yeah and be honest,
    The best piece of advice i ever received was that i should do things in my own time, not run to the guy's schedule.


    Also, to never show how attracted i am to the guy. Dont show too much interest..
    Bring along a lump or two of sugar, they love it. Pat them on the horns, compliment them on the state of their fleece, admire their hooves, bleat nicely to them. And always remember, they are GOATS not sheep.
    you don't have to worry ,just go for it and every thing will be fine.Remember always to be your self ;-) that's was the advice to me
    Always give someone a second chance. The first date is often messed up and not typical of what will follow.
    Women want sex, just as much as men do....they just don't show it and try to hide it....but it doesn't mean they dont want it...
    Don't act desparate.
    Best Advice !


    Never Marry !


    Just enjoy your life !


    ( I am so thankful that I stayed single )
    become friends befor lovers
    Actions speak louder than words.
    KEEP THE ITCHY HANDS OFF HER BUTTS AND T*T*!
    If they get their boobs out, then you've definately got a shag!
    Be yourself
    My mum said 'don't let him touch you in your private places' and it still makes me smile now.
    treat her mean and keep her keen
    To keep him, put out.
    There's plenty of fish in the sea :)
    make sure you have money for a cab home
    I totaly agree with you dad
    your dad is great
    To keep my legs closed.

    I need advice on how to explain my bipolar disorder to my best friend.?

    I have recenlty been diagnosed as bipolar and am undergoing therapy and taking medications to help me. I am happy I have gotten the help I have needed for so many years. I am looking forward to leading a more normal and healthy life. My problem is my best friend doesn't even believe bipolar is a real illness. He says he has never even known anyone that suffered from any type of mental illness.He doesn't understand why I can't just ';stop feeling sorry for myself, realize what a great life I have and be happy';. How can I explain to him that it's very real? Are there any good websites or books I can share with him that give tips on understanding the illness? This is causing a real rift in our friendship. He means a lot to me and I need all the support I can get right now. Any advice or suggestions are great appreciated.I need advice on how to explain my bipolar disorder to my best friend.?
    Hi I found this and thought it might be of help to you





    How To Explain Bipolar


    Disorder to Others


    How do you explain your, or a loved one's, condition to the others?


    Here are a few sentences to help you organize your thoughts. Choose


    the most appropriate explanations and modify as needed.





    Difficulty: Easy





    Time Required: One hour estimated





    Here's How:





    Stripped down to basics, people with bipolar disorder have mood


    swings, from elation to depression, that don't necessarily have


    anything to do with what's going on in their lives.


    Bipolar disorder is also called manic depression, and it appears to


    be caused by electrochemical abnormalities in the brain.


    TV shows like to show people with bipolar disorder as criminals, but


    don't worry - only a small percentage are ever violent, and I'm not


    one of them!


    ';Mania'; and ';manic'; don't mean ';crazy'; - they refer to extra high


    emotions, full of energy, fast-talking, not needing much sleep [add


    appropriate symptoms].


    I am a rapid cycler - that means I can be ultra-excited one day and


    deeply depressed the next, for no obvious reason. [Modify this to fit


    the person's cycle pattern.]


    I get into what are called ';mixed states'; when I seem to have a lot


    of energy but at the same time am really down, angry or panicky.


    There are a lot of possible medications for bipolar disorder. My


    doctor has started me out on _____, but if that doesn't work, we'll


    just try something else.


    When I'm manic, I have particular problems with [choose symptoms


    like: spending too much money, talking too much, not making a lot of


    sense].


    Inappropriate anger can be a symptom of bipolar disorder. I might say


    or have said hurtful things that I really don't mean - I'm sorry!


    Finding the right medication should help control that behavior.


    When I get depressed or into a mixed state, I sometimes feel


    suicidal. That's my illness talking - but it's serious. You might


    have to get me to a hospital if I seem really bad.


    Bipolar disorder seems to be inherited but the exact cause is not


    known yet.


    Don't worry if I _________ [behavior you and your doctor agree is


    symptomatic but not dangerous by itself].


    If I start ________ [behavior you and your doctor agree is


    dangerous], tell me to call my doctor, or take me to the hospital.


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    Tips:





    All of the above can be modified to be about someone else, not


    yourself - e.g., ';He is a rapid cycler'; or ';she gets into mixed


    states.';


    Educate yourself as much as possible about your condition by reading


    up on it, and urge close family members to do the same.


    Give careful consideration to whom and to what extent you share these


    very personal details about yourself. There are those who will simply


    never understand. If you lose a friend, it is their loss!


    RELATED LINKS AND INFO


    Bipolar is a Serious Psychiatric Condition Types of Bipolar Disorder


    Effects of Manic Depressive Illness Overview of Depression and


    Bipolar Bipolar FAQs - Answers All Your Basic Questions How to


    Explain Bipolar Disorder to Others


    This information comes from the Healty Place web site at


    http://www.healthyplace.com/index.asp


    the aboved mentioned links can be found at the web site indicatedI need advice on how to explain my bipolar disorder to my best friend.?
    Ask your psychiatrist or therapist if he could come to one of the appts just to hear about what bipolar is. My docs have offered to explain things to family and friends. Thats what they are there for to be on your side. I hope your friend comes around with things. Be sure to know when to stop trying to explain yourself because you shouldnt have to anyway.
    This can be bite tricky, and unfortanately he may never be empathetic. According to him, he has never known anyone with a mental illness, but how exactly does he know that? Many people live relatively normal lives and others would never suspect they suffer from an illness. You can provide him with books from the library, and websites like WebMD, Mayo Clinic, National Institute for Mental Disorders, etc. But, I suspect it will not significantly change his view.





    The sad fact is, psychological disorders are still stigmatized and viewed more as a flawed internal characteristic. Many people do not realize that these disorders cross so many boundries, and no one is immune. Just because you live until 90 with out a problem, does not mean that at 91 you will not become severely depressed or start hearing voices, etc. Or, suffering from a head injury, etc, may precipitate some forms of mental illness. He may be one of those individuals that cannot understand until something effects him directly.





    With that said, you can try to inform him. But, at the same time, realize that you cannot get very far with someone that is closed-minded and chooses to remain ignorant. If he makes a valid effort to understand, then he is a true friend.
    It is hard for people that don't have mental disorders to understand what you are going thru. You could look up Bipolar Disorder on WebMD (and if he is willing to read it) that would be a start. Don't expect him to change everything about himself to accommodate your disorder, give him time to take it all in. As much as you have to try to understand about the treatment he is having to understand the problem. Be open and listen to his concerns and let him ask questions and be honest with him.
    Please understand i am crazy.
    It might broaden his perspective to read A Remarkable Medicine Has Been Overlooked, written by the founder of The Dreyfus Foundation, Jack Dreyfus, about his own battle with Depression - another debilitating and little understood mental disorder. It's a real eye-opener.
    explain to him in a closed room


    or like get on top of him and explain everything


    or even record yourself and compare yourself to him and other people


    or be like ';i can kill you so dont play with me';


    thats what i did (i dont think ihave a mental illness) and people always listen
    mental disorders are recognised by the medical profession as an illness otherwise they would not treat it as such.





    with this in mind, think of your bipolar disorder as a neurochemical imballance in your brain. our emotions are based on chemical reactions taking place within your brain, people who have bipolar disorder generally have a problem as such with their brain producing chemicals at the wrong time or in the wrong amounts which can lead your mood.





    I hope you get the help you need so that you can overcome this.
    If he is not open to your condition, he is not a friend, period. i am sorry to say that, but it's true.
    Why not take him to a therapy appointment with you? If he's unwilling to go, is he really your friend?
    good luck on your treatment.


    i hope your best friend understands.
    Tell him this:


    Its like running for a mile up a hill needing to get there fast...almost at the top tripping %26amp; falling back down to bottom...


    Good 鈾?Luck %26amp; stay on your meds.
    I agree with the above answers and would like to suggest that you invite him to come to a therapy session with you (with your therapist's prior approval). You therapist can help explain to him how your illness might affect him, and even what signs to look for should you go off your meds or need other kinds of intervention. If you patiently explain the disease and how it affects you, and he still blows it off as not real, perhaps he is a ';fair-weather'; friend.
    Glad to hear you are getting the help you need and also that you want the help.





    I grew up in a family that has a history of Bipolar disorder.


    We explain it to the kids by comparing it to diabetes.


    There is a short circuit in the amount of chemicals that keep the brain functioning as it should and meds and therapy help to balance the chemicals.





    www.everydayhealth.com does a good job of explaining it.


    However, if your friend refuses to accept that Bipolar is a legitimate illness after being educated, there is not much you can do.





    Simply give him the information, tell him it is important to you that he be understanding and hope for the best. In the long run it is ourselves we control, not others.
    What Is Bipolar Disorder?


    Bipolar disorder, formerly called manic-depressive illness, is a condition that affects more than two million Americans. People who have this illness tend to experience extreme mood swings, along with other specific symptoms and behaviors. These mood swings or ';episodes'; can take three forms: manic episodes, depressive episodes, or ';mixed'; episodes.


    The symptoms of a manic episode often include elevated mood (feeling extremely happy), being extremely irritable and anxious, talking too fast and too much, and having an unusual increase in energy and a reduced need for sleep. It's also very common for someone to act impulsively during a manic episode, and engage in behaviors that are risky or that they later regret, like spending sprees. And in over half of all manic episodes, people are troubled by delusions or hallucinations. For example, they may think they have a relationship with someone famous, claim to be an expert in an area they really know nothing about, feel paranoid (unusually fearful), or hear voices that are not there.





    The symptoms of a depressive episode often include an overwhelming feeling of emptiness or sadness, a lack of energy, a loss of interest in things, trouble concentrating, changes in normal sleep or appetite, and/or thoughts of dying or suicide.





    A mixed episode includes symptoms that are both manic and depressive.





    What causes it?





    The symptoms of bipolar disorder are thought to be caused by an imbalance of key chemicals in the brain. The brain is made up of billions of nerve cells that move a constant stream of information from one to the other. To keep the information flowing, the cells release chemicals known as ';neurotransmitters.'; Two key neurotransmitters that are needed for brain function are dopamine and serotonin, which play a crucial role in emotional health.





    Many scientists believe that when the levels of these neurotransmitters aren't quite right, it may result in bipolar disorder. For instance, too much dopamine in certain parts of the brain can cause symptoms such as delusions, while too little dopamine in other parts of the brain can cause symptoms such as a lack of emotion and energy.











    The exact way ABILIFY (aripiprazole) (or any other medicine for Bipolar I Disorder) works is unknown. However, experts believe that ABILIFY works by adjusting dopamine, instead of completely blocking it, as well as affecting serotonin.





    How can medicine help me?





    Although there is no cure for bipolar disorder, medicine can play a key role in helping you manage your symptoms and extreme mood swings. It can help make your behavior more even and predictable.





    Many people act very agitated, uncooperative, and aggressive during acute manic episodes, which can be frightening. Medicine can help get these behaviors back under control. Once that's achieved, your healthcare provider may recommend continuing medicine (along with psychotherapy and support from your family and friends) to help you stay stable.





    But taking medicine as prescribed and staying on it can be hard. You may feel like you don't need medicine when your symptoms improve. And because the side effects can be bothersome, you may want to stop taking medicine altogether. It's important to continue taking your medicine until you talk with your healthcare provider.





    If you have questions about how your medicine is working, you should be talking to your healthcare provider.





    Counseling, training, and support





    With counseling, including psychotherapy, training, and support from family and friends, you may find it easier to deal with the emotions and stresses of bipolar disorder. Find out about sources of support and other resources for information.





    Hear actual firsthand accounts of people who have been diagnosed with Bipolar I Disorder and are taking ABILIFY, in Personal Stories.
    He is your best friend, he should understand your problems. You don't need proof to tell him. Just try to explain everything to him. One day he'll understand you. Have a very serious talk with him. Good luck!!
    Since you are together a lot and he means a lot to you, you must know him pretty well. What type of person is he? Sensitive or not? I think some people (like myself) are not good at understanding others without first hand experience, which doesn't mean that he is not understanding, or nice to you. This might be some type of ';disease';. Just give him and yourself some time, and he will understand you eventually. If he can't understand you very well now, give him some time, which will take some pressure off him and also off yourself. Friendship is important, especially with someone you cherish this much.





    Take care and hope you recover soon.

    Do you like my new song? 10 points for best advice?

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8Nc03KT2g...


    its my first song.. any advice or comments are apreciated


    thanksDo you like my new song? 10 points for best advice?
    Thats good! your so great! you should be a singer! :)
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  • Best advice for a cold when pregnant.I can take Claritin D for congestion. Any other advice? I am 4 months.?

    dont worry at all. it is very normal.. please boil some water and add little vicks or cold balm in boiling water..... inhale that and i am sure it will work out for you...my sincere advice is dont take any allopathy medicines, it may not harm you or your baby..but always go for natural stuffs like inhale the vicks vapour.....Best advice for a cold when pregnant.I can take Claritin D for congestion. Any other advice? I am 4 months.?
    um.... I always used vic's on my chest, it just made it feel better to breathe freely. And of course the claritin is meant for allergies, so i would just ask a pharmacy, they would know all the answers. I always just used the vic's. good luck, feel betterBest advice for a cold when pregnant.I can take Claritin D for congestion. Any other advice? I am 4 months.?
    First off you should not be taking Clariton D at all while you are pregnant. if anything try hot tea and maybe tylenol. Even better ask your OBGYN he or she would know the best thing for you.
    try lemon juice and hunny mixed with hot water
    Warm tea with lemon, big bowls of hot soup and a vaporizer in your bedroom.


    best of luck.
    dont know, but congratulations!
    Rest, plenty of juice %26amp; chicken noodle soup.
    I also have a cold. It is so hard for me to breath.My nose is so clogged, i swear i get scared that i am going to pass out from not being able to breathe. I was told that I can take sudafed(Hope i spelled it right). I also use vicks inhaler, as it helps a little, not all that much. I drink hot tea which also helps a little. Good luck.Make sure who ever told you that u can use claritin d was your doc. Please don't go by second hand information.

    So far, what's the best advice you ever got?

    mine would be this : '; The best sermons are lived, not preached';So far, what's the best advice you ever got?
    ';Don't hold on to something you intend to let go.';





    said by a friendSo far, what's the best advice you ever got?
    The single best advice I have ever gotten is:





    ';Positivity attracts positive and negativity attracts negative';





    If you only focus on thinking and dwelling on negative things, you usually attract mostly more negative situations. If you learn to focus on the positive events of your life, you will learn to appreciate the many good things you have in your life. This helps create an outward looking positive attitude in you which in turn helps draw more positive events to your life.
    'Never advise anyone, unless you are specifically asked for it !'
    ';Bang myself with a hammer on my head.'; c/o Bean





    I honestly need to soon.


    http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>





    ...and I friggin need to cry too. I truly do! And its just not happening. Unbelievable!





    I mean HOW DIFFICULT IS IT TO MAKE A VERY LAME GIRL CRY?!?


    Honestly?!?!





    And I am so ranting...





    So there...


    Sorry.
    ';you're gonna die anyway, so eat what you wanna eat, drink what you wanna drink. life is short, live it.';





    hmm, actually that's my advice to myself. coz i usually don't follow others.
    I really think it was this, ';When I want your advice, I'd give it to you.';, but I don't really know what it means. But it's from my Boss, so it must be good.
    There's a lot of people out there competing for the same job you want, so you need to work extra hard to differentiate yourself from the others.
    People don't plan to fail, they fail to plan.





    Wise old Navy Chief !
    The Golden Rule: Never do to others what you don't want others to do to you.
    ';too many cooks spoil the broth'; you cant have many bosses caling the shots. one coach, one team. thats it.
    Hi, mine is this


    ';In the challenge to reach a goal, there is only one way to move:Forward';
    Stop chasing dreams made for somebody else...
    There are no born genuises in the world. Hardwork is the key to achieve your goal.





    ;-)
    ';Never trust anybody';


    They only try to take advantage of you
    ';Don't move back to the Philippines.';
    the best advice anyone ever gave me is always keep your head up because through the night there is a brighter day
    KICK THE BUCKET! AND KICK IT HARD!
    Count your blessings.
    ';Just be yourself...';
    'listen to your heart above all other voices' xo
    be a speeling bee champion!
    Never tell a lie.
    what good is a man if he does not make this world better

    Round 2: What was the BEST advice you received from your parents?

    My best advice, is to always be honest.


    Consider other peoples feelings before mine.


    Stand your grounds, know your facts.


    Be understanding when it comes to others.Round 2: What was the BEST advice you received from your parents?
    I met a guy online and he is in the Navy. My mom told me his family is on the other side of the country so you need to go out with him. Well, it was love at first site...even though we met in person hung out for a few days and now he's gone for 6 weeks...:(Round 2: What was the BEST advice you received from your parents?
    get a nice boyfriend, don't end up like your sisters
    Be true to yourself
    to not have kids
    God hears ';amen'; wherever you are.
    To go to college and fulfill my dreams and be successful no matter what obstacle comes my way.
    The best advice was to always save for a rainy day. It's true, you never know when something unexpected (and expensive) will come up.
    When I asked them what sex was, my mother's reply was, ';DON'T DO IT!!!!';





    That I suppose was the best advice considering everything else she's told me.
    ';Get a job and stick with it.'; That was my first job, and it didn't cause me any problems.
    My mom told me to be a lady in public but be a whore in bed! LOL... I am marrying my best friend and life is wonderful in the bedroom!
    Swearing is worse than stealing.
    Always wear clean underwear in case you're in an accident.
    never pet a burning dog
    Break other's belongings.
    My momma told me not to look into the eyes of this Earth.





    But I kept saying, ';But momma. That's where the fun is.';
    Never chew on tin foil.

    Should I call it quit? 10 points for the best advice.?

    My boyfriend is every women dream. He is very smart (going to law school), tall (6'2''), sporty (college football player), good looking, etc. ...





    Well, he has his problems. He does not like to show his feelings (to me), very egocentric, very stubborn, very short temper, and act baby sometimes, etc.





    In the past 3 years, we don't get along very well. We almost break up two times. The only thing that keep us going is we have a very strong physical connection (lust%26amp;love)





    I am tired of all the dramas and want to leave him. To be honest, I am hanging on because I afriad I could not find any better guys.





    I know, I am stupid.





    What do you think? Thank you so much for your help.





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    Sorry for the spellings and grammar ---English is my second language.Should I call it quit? 10 points for the best advice.?
    You should never call yourself stupid.


    And don't ';over-value'; a person you are having a relationship with. Value yourself first, last, and always, because at the end of the day you are responsible for yourself.





    One big problem is while you are waiting for him to ';grow up,'; you're missing out on dating, knowing and possibly finding a much nicer guy who will put you first in a relationship.


    The important thing is to run your own life, and let him make his own decisions. If he meets YOUR standards of behavior, you will date him. If he doesn't, you won't. You must make the standards, because he will not. He may find it impossible to grow up or be more considerate.


    But there are many great people out there, and you won't find them unless you start looking.


    Handsome is as handsome does---if he doesn't treat you right, he's ugly and stupid, no matter what his grades are.


    But you have to demand good treatment, or you won't get it.Should I call it quit? 10 points for the best advice.?
    There are no perfect people... you must decide if the positives outweigh the negatives. When you say you want to leave him, but are afraid... I recommend you get a book called ';Too Bad To Stay, Too Good To Leave.'; It helps people with just this type of decision.





    I hope it is printed in your native language, that would be best.
    first of all, just because he is good looking, doesn't mean he is every womans dream. he has many bad character traits, and if you were cobsidering leaving him, do it, and find a new guy.
    Hmmm.. Well you see - you telling that you are affraid that you will not find someone else... For me it means that you don't like your boyfriend and thinking about others... It is doesn't metter that he is extremely cute or smth like this - the only thing is metter - is your feelings. So if you don't love him - do not be affraid! You will find the one who will be better then he is :)
    Don't think of it as finding someone better think of finding someone different. The next person you meet may not have all the good qualities your current bf has but hopefully they have a better personality. Maybe suggest taking a break from each other or go to couples counseling. Make him realize you're not happy with the way things are and the two of you need to work on the relationship. if he doesn't want to try to improve things or if the counseling doesn't help then you need to move on. Don't worry about your spelling and grammar, English is my only language and I can't get it right.
    I only agree with two of the statements you made. No, actually one.
    I challenge with you , You will not quit him and he will not also quit You. You two will be like this This is nothing but psychological dependents. This is true love. You will continue. Even if you quit once again you will join with him, and the same case for your friend also. Made for each other. All the best Yours VRVRAO
    Have you talked to him about this in a calm and caring manner? Maybe there's some deeper meaning to all of this and you just need to discuss it with him when both of you are in a nice mood. Just make sure to show NO hostility towards him, otherwise the ego will kick in, and you want to avoid that. If that doesn't work, go to a marriage counselor, that's what they're there for! They will be more then willing to help you and your husband work all this out.


    And if the worse is to happen and nothing changes, then you may need to detach from him. But do whatever you can to avoid such an outcome.





    I wish you two the best of luck!
    No, you're not stupid. Hanging on because you may not find someone better is a semi-logical move.





    The best idea, however, would be to let him go. Pretty much anyone would be better if they loved and cared for you as you are...not for a peice of meat. (Excuse the expression.)





    Gently tell him that you're ready to move on and that you can still remain friends.





    Trust yourself...you're ready for someone new.





    Good luck!
    the way you enumerate his character leads me to believe that he is ';not'; every womans dream. remember that physical attributes comes second when you want a lasting relationship. it is the ';character'; that counts. if you want to settle for less, go ahead and stick around. but remember that if you love him, you have to accept him for what he is.
    sorry to say this,dump the immature baby,there are better men out there,take a little time for yourself then start looking


    for someone else. GOOD LUCK.
    i would say just because he is good looking doesnt make him a good guy. try to find someone who has a good personality.
    Well that depends on your definition of a ';better'; guy. Academic /attributes wise he's a pretty rounded off challenge, but though if your talking about personality, I do think he sucks, bad.


    ';we have a very strong physical connection (lust%26amp;love)'; - excused for the lusty part, but love? You're here, so a ';strong love connection'; statement's a void. Point here, do you like him alone, his attributes, or are you actually afraid that you can't find a better man - so you stayed by him. I wouldn't have any comments if you chose either of the first 2, but if it's because you can't find anyone better - well I don't think that's(you) worth a dime.


    Ask yourself, then judge yourself. (:
    Go on with your life. YOu can never have a successful marital life with him.trust me. You will get someone better. You better get married soon. and be honest to your husband. Try not to tell your husband about your past. now if you want to say that you want to be sincere with your husband or to that person entering into your life as he shared his past with you so PLEASE open your mind and think wisely. NO man in this world can happily welcome a wife who had a physical relationship with someone. HE might agree and say that it doesn't bother to him whatever your past may be, but somewhere inside his heart he will have this feeling that he is having a life partner who had a relationship etc etc.





    so u better get married soon to someone else. I'm sorry but as you have mentioned the other qualities of this guy that he short tempered, stubborn and above all egocentric, then believe me he will cause nothing but many troubles and grieves to your bond.





    Sister~!
    You are the one who needs to grow up. You do not need this baby, especially if he is treating you this way.


    Dump this sorry excuse for a human and go out and get yourself another, better guy.


    As far as you language goes, I think you are too lazy to use the check spelling button, like the other morons out there.
    Let him go and move on. It is apparent that you are not in love with this man. You have got to be in love with the person you spend your life with. The sex will be great so don't think about what you are giving up.

    Need travel advice: where is the best place online to rent a car for pick up in Rome,Italy?

    I suggest you go to EXPEDIA.com, since they are so far is the web that gives the best price..so far.Need travel advice: where is the best place online to rent a car for pick up in Rome,Italy?
    I've rented cars in Europe and Italy before, and the last time I went I got a great price from Avis. I would just check some of the major car rental companies websites, as not only will they have the most locations, the newest and best cars, but are probably the ';safest'; companies to rent cars from, especially from a foreign tourist's point of view. The last time I went to Italy, we didn't make any hotel reservations as we never knew where we were going to go next and really never had a problem, most cities have tourist offices that can help you with hotels, but if you do have a particular hotel or location in mind, it may be best to reserve ahead of time. Have fun.Need travel advice: where is the best place online to rent a car for pick up in Rome,Italy?
    Try my site @ http://www.glennbrookstravel.com and have a fun and safe trip.

    Does any one need advice then come to me i give the best advice ever?

    then come to me i give the best advice everDoes any one need advice then come to me i give the best advice ever?
    Really? You sound extremely boring and full of yourself.Does any one need advice then come to me i give the best advice ever?
    Really? If your advice is as wonderful as your writing skills, I think I will have to pass. Punctuation is our friend....
    ok how can i get one thousand points really fast
    i really need more points can i get ten!! lol
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    So what is the worst %26amp; best advice someone gave you...?What's The Worst and Best Advice Someone Gave You ...?
    Best: go back to school. Got my dilpoma!!!





    Worst: leave my boyfriend. It only caused months of heartache for both of us and we got back together anyway. You can only listen to your heart not someone else.What's The Worst and Best Advice Someone Gave You ...?
    Worst Advice: Jump off a Bridge


    Best Advice: Cleanliness is Happiness
    Worst advice: 'He's annoying you, punch him!' (about some kid in primary school, can't remember much.)





    Best advise: 'Never play by the odds, play to win!'
    ,,,umm,,, worst advice::: here try this ,,its really good........





    ,,,and best advice::::: stop

    I am looking at becoming a financial advisor. Anybody have advice on career path/ best companies to work for?

    I have 17 years of experience in the investment field and I have been managing and trading my own account for a living since '98.





    I am thinking about talking with some independent financial advisors with the intent of finding someone that wants to take on a junior advisor(usually the advisor will give the junior some small accounts to help get started and takes a cut of the commissions of course) I have heard that this is a much better approach than starting out with no accounts as you would in a wire house training program.I am looking at becoming a financial advisor. Anybody have advice on career path/ best companies to work for?
    We've been trading for the same amt of time!!! Me since 98 too! I decided to get my series 7, %26amp; 3 license at the end of 2000, but then when 9/11 happened it just created havoc in securities industry. And even though I believed the market would go down and had good stragities to help people protect their investments, I couldn't convince others. I guess I am not a very good salesperson. I hated the sales end of the industry, as it is just that. Sales. Makes no difference to the company what you know, they just want to see sales. The better way I think for a trader, if that is what you like to do, is to get in on the portfolio management or (I can't think of the term right now, but industrial? where you are working with trading currencies for banks or trading stocks for the company itself) side of the industry, but stay away from the retail end. I later got my series 55 (market maker) and was much happier on that side of things, and later was hired by a private party to manage their large portfolio. I was very happy with that and made very good money, (but there were personal conflicts) I took my bonus and ran and now am back on my own.....and have lost all my licences due to not hanging them with a company, which I am not unhappy about. It was a good experience. I now also work with others helping them manage their own portfolio, for which I don't need any securities license for. I take a % of profits, and feel much happier doing this. I hope this helps.....and good luck!I am looking at becoming a financial advisor. Anybody have advice on career path/ best companies to work for?
    Been there! It has been a hard couple of yrs to trade.....jazzzame@yahoo.com

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    I worked for AG Edwards %26amp; Sons and also had my own independent firm. Depending on your location, you probably know who dominants the market... you should probably start there. There's a lot of advantages I missed when I was self-employed; namely, medical insurance and not being able to buy company stock at a discount. Also, if your firm does a lot of underwriting, you won't have the opportunity to sell shares until they hit the secondary market.
    visit http://net-new.blogspot.com and also visit http://netnew.tripod.com and search
    Hi, i know what your question means. i also think stock market is a nice place for investing.





    I found some useful tips in stock trading. It includes stock basics, how to protect your profit, find a potential increase share, control and manage stock risk, when to sell/buy stock and so on.





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    Best Wishes %26amp;%26amp; Good Luck!

    I am looking for advice on best websites to search for rabbit cages, hutches, and pens need advice asap!!!?

    I have to 4 week old rabbits that I got at the local vet were I work and I was only supposed to help them back to health but I have become to attached to them and I need advice on rabbit cages. Please attach links to excellent websites. thanks.I am looking for advice on best websites to search for rabbit cages, hutches, and pens need advice asap!!!?
    You certainly can keep rabbits as indoor pets - if you keep them indoors with you, they'll really become attached to you. Have a read of these sites' recommendations for cage sizes and security -


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    http://au.geocities.com/leaswebsite/bunn鈥?/a> - my site - have a read and hope it's very helpful!I am looking for advice on best websites to search for rabbit cages, hutches, and pens need advice asap!!!?
    Goto : Craigslist.com, or


    call your local humane society and tell them what you need...
    petsmart has them www.petsmart.com


    also, if you have a local feed store they would have em





    also check out www.rabbit.org for lots of good info on bunny care





    at the very bottom is a Chapters link, that can direct you to a local rabbit chapter if you happen to live in a major city. ive used this site tons for all my bunny needs. good luck!
    I buy all my rabbit supplies through http://www.kwcages.com Cheaper than a pet store, they'll ship to your door and I've never been disappointed with the quality.
    Here are a few sites to try:





    www.damars.com


    www.klubertanz.com


    www.kwcages.com





    Damars and Klubertanz seem to have the best prices and shipping times from what I've found. They should have all of the rabbit supplies you'll need and more.
    Here is a place that has plans and pictures on how to build a rabbit hutch. http://msucares.com/livestock/small_anim鈥?/a>


    Good Luck!
    PLEASE DO NOT buy a cage from any petstore. They are by FAR too small for rabbits and extremely overpriced. Check out www.cavycages.com for awesome styles you can make any shape and any size!! ....or if you would like to build one out of wood, it can also be make quite cheaply if you are comfortable using a saw and a little chicken wire......OR. i sell them online for a very reasonable price. Good luck with your search and your bunnies!

    What's the best relationship advice you've ever received?

    Relationships take work, they don't just happen.

    Ladies-Best advice you could give a male when it comes to having a daughter? I don't have a daughter, I just

    wanted to know!Ladies-Best advice you could give a male when it comes to having a daughter? I don't have a daughter, I just
    Oh, my daughter is my husband best buddy. Men tend to be able to identify well with daughter than with son. Base from lots of friends' experience, I am right.Ladies-Best advice you could give a male when it comes to having a daughter? I don't have a daughter, I just
    wow u need to love her support her and do go psycho when she brings home her first lil boyfriend lol like my hubby wants to do. respect her and set rules for her teach her good morals and values make her a better woman...she will love you forever no matter what just dont be a deadbeat dad as they call them...my father is a drug addict i havent seen him in over 7 years but i still love him with all of my heart...i guess some people would call me crazy but he is my father and i thankgod that he is alive everyday....no matter what he does or doesnt do i will always love him...he was there when i was a lil girl and i understand drug addictions how can i ever blame him it is a horrible addiction....forgiving hearts are the best. goodluck when you do have one. and enjoy every minute of it they grow up fast.
    having a child is amazing by itself..my baby girl has her dad wrapped around her little finger good luck
    dont be tightass deadbeat dad...u helped make the kid, u help take responbility for it
    punk out the first guy she brings home
    i m just fed up of my dad------ and i hope not u to b just like him--------- first-- do ur things urself--- when ur daughter gets to grow up------- spend more time as possible with her---------- dont forct her to do anything------- and b angry at her-----------------and dont get in 2 any quarrel related to her----------------------------- solve her problems as much as u can-- i dont mean by the problems of math-- i mean t give her advice which noone can give her-------------------------------------鈥?and the most important thing--- love her-:-)----------------- hope uwill b a good dad-------------------------------------鈥?and thanx for asking
    Having a daughter has many reasons and patience that you have to understand and learn. The first think that you should do is to learn to listern to your daughter of whatever she wants to say, a teenager loves to feel love and wanted that is why they want to enter into a relationship at a very young age. Second, trust, show trust to your daughter .. if you give curfew, don't nag her if she comes a few minutes late. talk to her privately and your tone should be lower and calm, because daughters are really sensitive to words and actions. Third, learn to appreciate her work, if she helps you in some work at home or something... make her feel that she is appreciated and loved. Fourth, Encourage her by means to telling her the things that could help her a better person, a good conversation will really help her be the kind of daughter you always wanted.

    Any advice on where is the best sports placing bets in Manila that is legal?

    NFL and NBAAny advice on where is the best sports placing bets in Manila that is legal?
    Probably at a whore house, because every bar is in fact a whore house. Thank God for the Philippines.
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  • Has anyone any advice on the best laptop to buy?

    I am looking for a good laptop, that will handle games like the sims nightlife, zoo tycoon ect. I have seen one with the following specs and would appreciate any advice you can give me on buying a good laptop. I need plenty of space to install games and dont want it to be jerky when playing games. Also need one to play dvd's as good as a portable dvd player


    Intel Core Duo T2300 Processor 1.66GHz





    667 MHz FSB





    2 MB Cache





    1024 MB RAM





    120 GB Hard Drive





    DVD ReWriter MultiDrive





    17'; HD Widescreen Brightview Display





    Microsoft Windows XP Home Edition





    256 MB nVidia GeForce Go7400 Graphics


    This laptop costs 拢1.100





    Is there much difference between the above laptop and the one below the one below is 拢849.00 both HP





    AMD Turion64 ML-34 Processor 1.6GHz





    1600 MT/s HyperTransport





    1 MB Cache





    1024 MB RAM





    100 GB Hard Drive





    DVD ReWriter MultiDrive





    17'; HD Widescreen Brightview Display





    Microsoft Windows XP Home Edition





    128 MB ATI X200 Dedicated GraphicsHas anyone any advice on the best laptop to buy?
    go for the HP 5118 , best Machine in market this time, would not sattle for less then this.Has anyone any advice on the best laptop to buy?
    DELL are pretty good - you can specify exactly what you want. My sister and husband have one each and they are really pleased with them.

    Can anyone give me some advice on when is the best time to apply for a new job?

    I am currently employed but have applied to leave my job. I will be finished in May and want to move straight into another job but am not sure how far in advance to apply for a new job? Is January too early?Can anyone give me some advice on when is the best time to apply for a new job?
    Actually the best time to look for a new job is while you are in employment.





    Do you have to finish in May?





    If you were lucky enough to find a job you liked could you give a month's notice (or less) ?. If so start looking straight away.





    There are so many unemployed people at the moment that it may not be easy to find alternative employment.





    Start straight away..Can anyone give me some advice on when is the best time to apply for a new job?
    Before I ever put in my two weeks notice then I have already been hired on a new job. Two weeks notice is the general rule for both the employer and the employee. You may have jumped the gun a little like I have also done in the past but I have found out that the best way to get hired on a new job is to be working and be in good standing with the employer I presently have. And remember to never burn your bridges.
    I would start talking to employment agencies in January with a view to making applications and trying to get interviews around March.





    on second thoughts, speak to agencies now. if they say you need some commercial training before you leave the forces, perhaps the forces will help you obtain it. depends what sort of job you are looking for.





    also, think ';objectives';


    the only objective of a CV is to get called for interview


    the only objective of an interview is to get a written job offer





    (are you going to be a reservist? some employers are not keen because you have to have certain time off.)
    So you've handed your notice in already but aren't leaving til next May?? Unless you have to give an extremely long notice period, then most people don't hand in their notice until 1 month before they leave. And you don't 'apply' to leave (as they can't say 'no you aren't leaving!')





    Wow.





    As for applying for a new job, well it depends somewhat the kind of work you're looking for, and also when the new employer might be ready for you to start. I'd say sure start looking in January, but bare in mind they may want you to start in February which will be too soon for you. Some companies may not want you to start til summer. It depends on them.





    I'd go for March time myself.
    I don't think January is too early, but some employers might. But if you start in January, you'll get a good sense of whether your resume is working (are you getting interviews?), what you need to change, etc.





    At this point, if I were you, I'd work with a career counselor who can help you with your resume and who can also help you figure out what the civilian equivalent is of your millitary career. You can also take this time - if you haven't already - to start making contacts with people (networking) and figuring out which civilian careers that you want to pursue.

    Best acne face wash and advice for first time-ers?

    To by honest, i never washed my face with cleanser or anyting.


    yeah, i know it's bad.


    and now im paying for it by getting these pimples and i really don't know what to do.


    I have NO idea what all these products do and what i need and if there's an order in washing my face.


    so PLESEEE help me here.





    Can you help me with:


    1] what is really the best when it comes to cleaning your face


    2] what do i need?


    3] is there suppose to be an order to what product i use first when i wash my face?


    4] any tips for better, healthy looking skin?





    I know that these are alot of questions, but I hope someone knows the answers because Iam really lost and I don't want pimples/acne and oil skin/dry skin.





    Any little bit of advice helps!Best acne face wash and advice for first time-ers?
    HOMEOPATHIC TREATMENT FOR ACNE / PIMPLES(Read Carefully) :-





    Head remedy.Pimples worse during menses;worse after eating fats, sugar, coffee and meat Psorinum 200X or 1M weekly (3 Doses)





    Pimples at the age of puberty with itching Asterias Rub 30X, 6 hourly





    If Asterias rub fails; pustuler eruptions Kali Brom 30X, 6 hourly





    Chronic cases; worse after taking eggs and during winter seasons Streptococcin.200X or 1M, weekly (3 Doses)





    To clean the complexion Berberis Aquifolium Q(Mother Tincture) 4 hourly, 7 - 8 drops





    Pimples; stools constipated like sheep's dung; worse from sea bathing Magnesia Mur.30X, 6 hourly





    Acne of nose; better in damp weather Causticum.30X, 6 hourly





    To cover tendency of pimples and to purify the blood Echinacea Q(Mother Tincture) 4 hourly, 5 - 10 drops





    Acne rosacea.Pimples are painful for some distance around; worse during menstruation. Eugenia J Q(Mother Tincture) 4 hourly, 5 -10 drops





    Pimples hard like flee bites, chilblains Agaricus Mus 30X or 200X, 6 hourly





    Skin moist; pimples; digestion slow; flatulence; better fanning Carbo Veg 30X or 200X, 6 hourly





    Rose colourd pimples; pale,waxy skin; chilly persons Silicea.200X or 1M weekly (3 Doses)





    Acne in tuberculer patients Tuberculinum K 200X or 1M weekly (3 Doses)





    Acne hard; indurated base with pustule at apex; night sweats Arsenic Iod 3X or 6X, 4 hourly





    When above remedies fail (intercurrent remedy) Sulphur 200X or 1M weekly (3 Doses)





    No side effects or complications if taken as directed, please do not exceed the given dosage and under any circumstances do not try to mix any remedies and avoid Chocolates, Mints, Coffee, Red Meat, Alcoholic and Carbonated drinks, Spicy Rich Food while taking any Homeopathic remedies, and keep the medicines away from direct sunlight, heat strong smells and perfumes and do not store them in the fridge.Curing without any side effects or Complications Thats the Beauty of Homeopathic Medicine.





    For more information about Homeopathy and how to treat Acne, Pimples etc check this link :- http://www.hpathy.com/diseases/acne-symp鈥?/a>





    Take Care and God Bless !Best acne face wash and advice for first time-ers?
    The best wash for your face is water. The face washes on the market are not designed for acne. Your doctor can give you some clindamycin gel to put on your pimples before you go to bed each night which will work much better. Eat lots of fruit and veg, don't smoke and some zinc suppliments will give you healthy looking skin.
    You left out the most important information%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;your age. I'm assuming you are pre-teen or early teen. Your new hormones that are making other changes in your body are also making your skin change. I can't see your 'acne' so it's difficult to answer your question. You might try one of the name brand foaming facial scrubs, but that doesn't mean that YOU SCRUB your face....you will make it more irritated and red if you try to cure acne overnight. It's a process. Buy one of those very soft facial brushes that are about $1 at walmart in the cosmetics dept. Put your foaming face wash on that (just a tiny amount, not gobs) and lightly wash your face in circular motions. Use a wash cloth to remove the scrub with cool water. Pat dry. You might want to put some of the OTC benzyol peroxide on the acne and know ahead of time that if often makes your skin a tad worse for a week or so before you see it getting better. IF this simple regimen doesn't do it for your acne, then spend the $$$ to go to a Dermatologist for prescription meds and scrubs and pads that have stronger % of the benzyol peroxide on them. Get that acne under control as early as possible and it won't get to the scarring phase. Expect to be under treatment for about a year, but not with the Dermatologist every month.....usually only 3 or 4 visits in the year is normal. They give refills on the meds so you only see them every 3 or4 months. Don't waste your $$$$ on tTV acne products. My son's half sister did that and none of them did much at all. I told her not to, but she is an informercial-a-holic. There are Derm docs for a reason.....use them!
    if you have pimples it's because your body couldn't keep up with the waste build up. take a laxative like prune juice or ex-lax. our mother always made us and we never had that problem. you can use Vaseline intensive care lotion to clear up the existing blemishes.
    If you just want to start with the best, Pro-Activ is the best I've ever heard of, for any acne problems. Everyone I know with acne has tried it or uses it. You order it.

    Survey: What's your best piece of advice to share with us today? Got any?

    ';who gossips with you will gossip of you';Survey: What's your best piece of advice to share with us today? Got any?
    Have fun like you never have fun before because you only live once.


    And always smile.


    Have a nice day.Survey: What's your best piece of advice to share with us today? Got any?
    Live, Love, Laugh.......everyday. : )
    Don't worry, be happy!
    dont take any wooden nickels
    Shoot low, they're riding Shetlands
    Wear your seat belt.
    Never sit in the back of a classroom.



    Yea, late night Y!A people can be strangely weird. I've learned my lesson, you'll only find me on in the a.m. NOW with my daytime buds.






    not to stay up all night and go to school

    What is the best relationship advice you ever got?

    ';leave those boys alone'; from my father for the entirety of my life.... should have listened!!What is the best relationship advice you ever got?
    Granpa said,'; better not marry that 1 son, your headed for trouble!';. shouldv'e listenedWhat is the best relationship advice you ever got?
    I got plenty.. but it all went in one ear and out the other. That is luv ain't it

    Please advice. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?

    My love and I love each other for 3 years. I moved to different states last year. We kept in touch as friends and we hope to be together one day. He recently wrote poems about move on. I thought he wanted to move on; therefore, I called it quit.





    It has been two months. We did not contact. He always on his my space. I looked at his myspace his relationship status is still in a relationship. He still post all the poems he wrote for me there.





    Is it possible that he still love and wait for me? Why don't he change his relationship status? (I am sure he did not forget to change it) Please advice.





    Thank you very much for your kindness.Please advice. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
    There you go, thinking again. Why do we always over think when we are in love it's suppose to be in our heart not in our mind.





    Seems you gave up on this way to early. If this guy is your love then treat it with some respect. He wrote a poem about the next thing in his live. Which is Moving on without you,and it is as hard for him as it is for you. Most people know long distance relationships are hard and sometimes fail but they are never forgotten.





    You two should maintain a friendship. Support each other in what ever each does. Even new BF/GF no matter what it is because in the long run it will make your love that much more stronger if you ever meet up again.





    Does he still love you? Ever think maybe your always gonna be his love. Seems like your too eager for him too move on so you don't have any guilt if you choose to. like I said maintain your friendship.Please advice. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
    I think you should telephone him. thats the best you can do instead of wondering...
    if he is still doing that, and you still lovr him then call him and talk to him, or email, text, or however you two stayed in touch.
    Dunno
    Do what your heart tells you too. You have nothing to loose anyway. Tell him what you think, be honest, and see what heppens. You don't have him now, so.. if you are open to him you might get him back (or not, but at least your tryed). About the website, maybe he's ok with everything in there and doesn't feel like changing. Just .. let him know your side.
    If you still love him you must talk with him and see about getting back together
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  • Has anyone any advice on the best laptop to buy?

    I am looking for a good laptop, that will handle games like the sims nightlife, zoo tycoon ect. I have seen one with the following specs and would appreciate any advice you can give me on buying a good laptop. I need plenty of space to install games and dont want it to be jerky when playing games. Also need one to play dvd's as good as a portable dvd player


    Intel Core Duo T2300 Processor 1.66GHz





    667 MHz FSB





    2 MB Cache





    1024 MB RAM





    120 GB Hard Drive





    DVD ReWriter MultiDrive





    17'; HD Widescreen Brightview Display





    Microsoft Windows XP Home Edition





    256 MB nVidia GeForce Go7400 Graphics


    This laptop costs 拢1.100





    Is there much difference between the above laptop and the one below the one below is 拢849.00 both HP





    AMD Turion64 ML-34 Processor 1.6GHz





    1600 MT/s HyperTransport





    1 MB Cache





    1024 MB RAM





    100 GB Hard Drive





    DVD ReWriter MultiDrive





    17'; HD Widescreen Brightview Display





    Microsoft Windows XP Home Edition





    128 MB ATI X200 Dedicated GraphicsHas anyone any advice on the best laptop to buy?
    either of these machines should be able to meet your requirements... the sims games are not very demanding on graphics/processor, so no problems for these PCs - same goes for DVD playback.





    if this is all that you require from your laptop, then i suggest going for the cheaper option...Has anyone any advice on the best laptop to buy?
    For hardcore gaming, go for Alienware. But based on your applications mentioned a TOSH or a Fujitsu would do.
    Get one of the new core duo processors rather than the AMD 64. They multitask a lot faster.





    Also dedicated graphics the bigger the better.





    Toshiba P100 for example.





    Good luck
    At present the best brand ir TOSHIBA


    and the second are : HP, Compact, simens
    try toshiba or lg
    The issue of the best laptop to buy should be taking serious by you because of the money you are investing and the reason for purchasing it. I am not really trying to recommend a particular product for you but to give you a professional advise.





    I will prefer you buy a product the has a warranty centre in your neighbourhood and also have support after sales.





    To the best of my knowledge an IBM product is the best option for you because of the ruggedity it has. I have used their products many times and it has been meeting my demand.





    I have recommended it for many people and their has been no regret.
    Seriously, call Dell and they will build you the perfect laptop. Tell them the exact specifications that you want and they can actually build your laptop with everything you asked for and then some. Just got my computer and laptop from them and I have no complaints.....they gave me exactly what I asked for plus a few upgrades and discounts.....
    Dell will do for you.
    hey man, buy the HP Pavilian dv4000 its the best and used for high duties.
    Get the cheaper one. It's not much worse at all.





    You can get 200 gigs of external hard drive for like 100 dollars.





    Hard disk is cheap. Processor speed is key. You can overclock perhaps.





    RAM is good for the current applications. Pro/home is the same for the average user.
    you can go for ibm think pad you ll surely have all the fearures you require and definitely long lasting battery and a very durable laptop which is cheaper than many others
    Try a sony vaio, or an apple mac ibook I think it is..





    go on ebay, type in the specs and put the items that come up on your watched items. then select them all and hit compare, then you can see 3 at a time side by side and you can get a fairly good idea.





    The applemacs are more a multimedia lap top, so probably better for what you want, but the sony vaio uses microsoft windows and so it's easier to use. I'd go for the vaio.

    What would be your best advice ?

    regarding ignorant people. I thought the best thing to do was to totally ignore them, but that can only do but so much.What would be your best advice ?
    No, I learned and I am still trying to learn to ignore people.


    If you comment back towards them, they'll like the attention and continue because you're giving in into what they want (your attention).What would be your best advice ?
    If they are addressing you.....then tell them ';when I want your opinion I'll ask, otherwise I would rather you not address me directly';this will get the point across that they are offending you...and if they persist reply ';your presence offends me, leave me alone'; these comments can be made in a calm voice, be sure to look them in the eye, the body language and the words will more than relay your dislike for there comments and ill-breeding. If you are in the presence of others, such as friends or classmates or work associates,simply excuse yourself...and say '; I dont care for SOME of the company that's kept here';, this will get the point across to the offending person and others that this persons presence and comments are offending to you. HOPE THIS HELPS!!
    Ignore them
    tell them to STFU no one cares what they think :)
    try to tell them off

    What category on yahoo answers do you feel you can give the best advice on?

    polls %26amp; surveys


    singles and dating


    family and relationshipsWhat category on yahoo answers do you feel you can give the best advice on?
    hmm. most of my answers are for p%26amp;s questions. i confident in my silly answers to silly questions. i don't answer much relationship questions because i don't have any answers. sometimes mental illness and psychology questions. there's a few things i know about these categories from my experience. most of the time people just want to know they aren't alone or want to understand why someone does something. i'm not so good at giving advice though. but, i can share my story.What category on yahoo answers do you feel you can give the best advice on?
    polls and surveys :]





    answer mine please!


    http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
    P%26amp;S.


    Sometimes in Celebrities and Jokes and Riddles.
    weddings, pregnancy, parenting, polls, jokes
    Polls and surveys, cause everybody has an opinion
    Music %26amp; Entertainment
    Id say Singles and dating:) use to be there alot and had alot of BA..but R%26amp;P doesnt always like my answers even though I do hahaha...P%26amp;S is my blow off time:)
    P%26amp;S.


    All it is is opinions.


    ^-^
    Video games


    Hair


    R%26amp;S
    P%26amp;S, otherwise I wouldn't spend about 8 hours a day on here.
    P%26amp;S because i dont like to do a lot of that thing called thinkin`
    havent found that talent of mine yet ;)
    polls and surveys they are kind of easy
    hmm.. idk really know yet.. i just go to random sections!

    What is this mean? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?

    L'脡chelle-CordeWhat is this mean? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
    It's une 茅chelle de corde and it is a ladder made with cord.


    Here is a picture : http://www.1001-jeux.com/echelle-de-cord鈥?/a>What is this mean? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
    It's what we, in English, call a rope-ladder.
    its a ladder of chord
    Ladder Cord





    Escalera de cuerda ............spanish
    I believe that you have gotten the answer.
    The Scale-Cord
    Rope Ladder

    What can be your best advice in living life?

    Sleeping around will get you more friends than just being niceWhat can be your best advice in living life?
    Live life to the fullest.What can be your best advice in living life?
    Live successfully and have fun.
    Get on with it! This isn't a dress rehearsal.
    Just go with the flow.


    Accept whatever problem you'll be having and take things one at a time.


    Then learn from your mistakes.


    Treasure the happy moments and stop sulking on the bad ones.
    dont over think thing


    and dont get mad so easily


    lifes to short to be p.o


    enjoy it and appreciate everything you do
    Take care of yourself. Live a healthy life! Pay attention to your mental health as well as your physical health.





    Best wishes from a grandma-aged person
    It depends on what kind of life your living if your on the wild side then that is great it's good to be out going but if it's to wild take a notch down. If your whole life is work then you don't have a life it's OK to get in trouble sometimes you won't die I promise start going out to dinner then party's it's called baby steps it's progressive. Here's my advice on living life take chances live life to the full but don't don't crush your morals and moto's in life. Hope I helped you.
    Live life to it's fullest. Don't be uptight leave room for a few minor mistakes. Find someone who loves you and hold onto them. Never get into a situation that you cannot handle.
    PRAY.
    whatever you're doin, be happy
    have no regrets.
    enjoy the ride and never look back
    The best advice I ever got was from my dad concerning living life. 1)always be honest


    2)always be on time


    3)you are only as good as your word





    All of these keep you out of trouble and keep you in the good graces of everyone!
    know god, and use him as your guide

    My heart is broken--10 points for the best advice. Thank you?

    I am 22 years old woman. I have been in love with his man for 4 years, but we never have sex and I am still a virgin.





    Last year, we separated and kept in touch as friends. We actually hope to get back together one day. Recently, he decided to move on by giving me some hints. He does not even want to tell me the truth. When I asked him for the truth, he ignored me.





    My heart is broken. I thought he is my true love. I have never dated any other guys.





    What should I do? Please cheer me up. Thank you so much for your kindness.My heart is broken--10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
    You have to give yourself sometime to heal from the situation, four years is a long time to love someone and I know that right now it feels like you will never get over this but trust me you will. Find things to do with your friends and family and keep yourself busy, The more you keep your mind occupied with other things the less time you will have to think about him and your relationship. You may never know the reason he wanted to end things and that is the hardest thing to accept but if you cannot talk and you need closure write him a letter and tell him everything you are feeling - you may decide to never give it to him and that is fine but it is your chance to say everything that you are feeling and get it out of your system. I did this a few years ago when I had a broken heart just like yours and it helped. I joined the gym lost some weight and eventually my heart healed. Your heart will heal it will take time so be patient with yourself you didn't fall in love overnight so you won't fall out of love that way either. Good Luck. I hope that this helps you.My heart is broken--10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
    well Ms. it sounds to me like he is in an emotional tough spot. it does sound like he wants to be with you but there is something deep lying inside of him that needs to be addressed. like maybe he is self concious about where your relationships would go and maybe he's scared he can't perform to your expectations in bed. you should do what you can to reassure him in all fields. men do need constant reassurance on issues like that. so my best advice Ms. is just try to talk to him and find out what it is that he is so shy about and I wish you all the best in this matter.
    you need to find a way to move on!! pray to the lord Jesus Christ and he will help u!! here my email address if u want to get to know a great guy!! efrain78223@yahoo.com
    The good thing is that u didnt have sex with him.... never think a guy is ur true love without being 100% sure which means..... he never ignores u ... he never hides ..he doesnt keep secrets from u ... and he is always there for u... then it is true love.





    but hey u r tooo young who knows maybe GOD has someone better than him for u .. u just need to wait ... life is short be happy and chill :)





    GOOD LUCK
    As hard as it is, he gave you the best advice...move on.





    I know it's hard to do this, having done it myself, but his actions show a glaring lack of caring and it's better you know now than if you invested 4 MORE years in a relationship that's obviously going nowhere.





    If you have any special interests or hobbies, now's the time to re-interest yourself in them. Maybe take some dancing lessons. Voice lessons....go to the library...just get out a little and enjoy something.





    Hopefully, you will start healing soon. In a way, as awful as this is, it's a good thing to consider he's done you a favor. Just think how hurtful he could've been if you'd continued your relationship with him.





    You deserve SO much better! Hugs, hon!
    You should congradulate yourself for holding out.Sex complicates everthing.The worst it could be is his chance for sex,just not with you.He doesn't want to admit the facts,only b\c he still cares about you and doesn't want you to think any less of him for needing physical relations.Especially due to the fact that he wanted you for so long and you denied him release.Meaning,no sex.The fact that he mentioned something about this means he loves you and doesn't want you to believe that he is perfect.
    Move on girl, many more big fish in the sea
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