Sunday, August 22, 2010

Best advice only please?

how young can i be made to let my baby go to its father's house away from me? I want to breast feed it for while. he thinks he can take it to visit right after its born. Its not that i don't want him to see it but i think for a while when its that young it should be with me.Best advice only please?
I think that you should breast feed it until the baby's ready. There's no better milk than a mother's breast milk. Every baby should drink their mother's own breast milk. Try to convince the dad that the baby needs the nutrition and nutrients to grow a healthy life.Best advice only please?
';how young can I be made';





What do you mean?





Do you mean the age of the child or what?





If you mean how often will you have to let your child see his father then you need to settle that in court.





When did you get divorced?
He can't hinder your right to breast feed. I was just listening to a segment on children and divorce and one couple had a similar issue. The husband wanted to visit with baby and mom wanted to breastfeed. What the estranged couple agreed to do was that mom spent the night on dads couch whenever baby spent the night at his home. That way Dad could visit and bring baby to mom whenever he/she was hungry.
It depends on how long your baby is going to be away from you. If it's going to be more than 30 minutes 6 months if it's more than an hour than 9 months. You could also ask a friend or family member to go to the father's house with the baby. BTW babies should be breast-feed for at least one year, it keeps them healthier an raises their IQ.
Hi there!





I am sorry that the two of you are not together as you share a baby and are apart.





Whatever your situation, if you are breast feeding, you will need to be doing this for a while and the baby needs to have a schedule.





Why not ask him to come see the baby and stay there if possible.





Obviously you were with him to have a baby, so visiting the baby at your home should be an option. If you start things correctly...right from the beginning, you will have a better relationship with him and your child.





This is only the beginning. You will be sharing your child for the rest of your lives. Make a good decision together on how to keep the BABY ON A SCHEDULE FIRST, and make adult plans on how to have the baby with each parent.





I hope this helps! Best wishes to you :)
FIRST OF ALL,WHY'S YOU AND THE FATHER IS NOT TOGETHER,AND SECOND IT CAN BE AROUND 3 WEEKS,AND YOU CAN GET A BREAST PUMP THAT PUMP BREAST MILK .AND BOTTLED I UP FOR WHEN THE FATHER COME AND PICK IT UP...

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