What is the'; best advice ';you ever had in life ? from who ?did u follow ?or still trying?

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peace !What is the'; best advice ';you ever had in life ? from who ?did u follow ?or still trying?
';He who is without sin cast the first stone.'; - Jesus





I'm not perfect at this one but I do try.What is the'; best advice ';you ever had in life ? from who ?did u follow ?or still trying?
To take responsibility for my life and actions. This means that one must overcome the problem of shifting blame. Even if it does appear that some other party is to blame for one's misfortune, by believing this one essentially disempowers oneself.


Far better to believe that on some unconscious level one participated in the cause of such ';woeful'; events for the reason of growth and realization - spiritual, psychological or otherwise. Even if it is not true it leads to empowerment, so I choose to believe this.





My life has changed unbelievably for the better since I stopped playing the ';victim'; card.





Moreover when you have a relationship with someone that has had the same realization, you can actually have an honest relationship. Express yourself sincerely and honestly without being fearful of ';hurting their feelings';. (Of course that does not mean that one goes around being nasty, one must still be gentle in one's approach, but one has the space to express one's pent up anger / frustration etc without being thought of as ';immature';). Of course anger and frustration should never become ';pent up'; in the first place. This is the ultimate in freedom and the ultimate in terms of honoring oneself. You're having so-called ';negative'; emotions for a reason, honor yourself by allowing them the airtime so as to actually change those things in your life that they are ';complaining about';. Our upbringing programs us to dishonor these feelings. At the same time, realize that you cannot change other people to fit a mold, but that you can change your own perceptions and work on that. Each life experience presents us with a growth challenge.





PS: I would disagree to a point with AuroraDawn's statement from the point of view that ';thinking before we act'; can often result in dishonoring our own emotional self. Your immediate thoughts and emotions are telling you about how you feel about a situation and one will never be fulfilled if one does not pay attention to these (and act upon them, either by expressing them or making changes to one's life that they are resolved).





Of course this could become an argument to justify say murder for example, so we must be careful - we are in a predicament where there is so much ';pent up'; frustration and anger that we must ';think before we act'; especially if we're feeling aggressive or nasty. However after working with these issues for some time and resolving some of these issues we no longer need to ';think before we act'; and life becomes pure ';living in the moment';. So, I agree and disagree with her, it depends on where you're ';at';.
';Do that which makes you feel good ABOUT yourself- as opposed to doing only that which makes you feel good.';


Very simplistic words spoken very casually,that had a huge impact on my life.


Advice from a friend.


Varies how much I follow those simple words-but am much happier when I do.





Blessings and peace.
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And no I forgot most of it so following is hard.
';Cocaine is a great high but one you can't control'; - My Dad





I lost all curiosities after he told me that.
';Let your heart defy your logic'; (missing you...)





I live by it everyday...
Think before you act.

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