I need advice about what is the best to do with my boy friends pet.?

My boyfriend just tragically passed away and I do not know what to do with his pet, a big Pastor Aleman, if a give it away, it is like if I am forgetting all about him, and I am in such a pain for his loss, on the other side, the dog gives me a lot to do, I do not have patience. I am confusedI need advice about what is the best to do with my boy friends篓pet.?
When dealing with loss, one of the hardest things to do is give away, sell or trade things that belonged to the person who passed because you feel like you are letting pieces of that person go, or you feel like you are betraying them and what they would have wanted. Thats the natural course of grief.





First see if a family member or friend can take the dog and care for it.... and if not then you need to think about what you should do. If you do not have the time to care for this dog in the full way that it needs, then your boyfriend would want you to do right and send the dog to a loving home that can care for it as it should be.





First look for shelters in your area that do NOT put animals down if they do not get adopted. Most often these places are very strict as to who they let adopt these animals. Many of these shelters will also let you know if the dog was adopted and it can give you peace of mind.





Just know that your boyfriend would want what is best for his pet, as well as what is best for you... you need to know that it's ok to do what is right...





I am sorry for your loss





TawnyI need advice about what is the best to do with my boy friends篓pet.?
Just give him up. I'm really sorry about your loss but don't suffer just because he left a pet. Surrender him to an animal shelter
This may sound unusual, but I suggest that you enter an obedience class for you and the dog. You'll go to class once a week (for 7 to 9 weeks) and practice at how daily. You and the dog will be working through the pain together. You may find this will help you more than you can imagine. You will also have experienced people to help you learn about how to handle any problems.
ITS YOUR CHOICE,if the pet is too much for you right now find a good home for him
Find a good home or take him to your local animal shelter; they will find a good home for you. Sorry about your loss and good luck
You could ask his vet, or a rescue service to help you place in a good home. But first see if any family members or his friends can take it in.
Finding a good and loving home for the dog does not mean that you are rejecting the memory of your loved one. Dogs require a lot of time and energy - if it's more than you can handle, it's best to find someone who will. So sorry for your loss.
Would a family member of his or someone else you know and are close to like to have it?? If so maybe you could still be apart of it's life. Bless your heart, Good Luck
First, try to see if he's got any family members who want to take the dog. If not, give him to a friend or someone who can give him a good home and take care of him. If you can't find anyone, try to give him to an animal rescue thing so someone else out there can adopt the dog..





sorry to hear bout your loss..
take him out and drop him off somewheres
I think maybe you should speak to one of his family members or a friend. While you may not have the patience to care for him, there are others that were close to him that may appreciate this chance to have a piece of him.
If it gives you such a pain, just hire a pet sitter. But, if you do get rid of it then just get a picture of him from his parents. Also, I am so sorry for such a tradgic loss. It will be okay, I promise.
I think that you should do what is best for you. Believe me, you won't forget all about him if you give his pet away. It might be a therepeutic step for you to give him away because you can prove to yourself that you are moving on and are ready for whatever life can bring you. I am so sorry that your boyfriend died!