Hi, Need Advice- Girl I like in class. Trying to ask her out. Best advice Please! Please see details below.?

I have been known to be too direct and forward in the past with bad results. I'm trying to be more smooth, but also confident, maybe in an indirect way. Please give me your personal insight. Best answer=10 pts.Hi, Need Advice- Girl I like in class. Trying to ask her out. Best advice Please! Please see details below.?
Get to be really good friends with her once she trusts you ask her who she likes or wait untill she asks you who you like. If she asks you who you like 1st then say ';well... i really like you'; hopefully she will then say ';well i like you to'; then you say ';oh really? : ]'; then like the next day ask her out but dont do it that same day. But if you ask her who she likes she might say ';you why do you want to know'; then just say ';well... because i like you...'; if she likes you back then ask her out like the next day. Ask her who she likes in a note or text but ask her out in person. Have Fun hope she likes you!!!Hi, Need Advice- Girl I like in class. Trying to ask her out. Best advice Please! Please see details below.?
plz dnt ask her out or txt her who she likes. its say more un personal. if you want a good chance and to woo her a lil more, say it all to her in person. and DONT ask her out the next day.just ask her to hang outg (group seting) once u find she lks u.gradually work it to a date and then ask her out

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talk to her. try to get to be friends with her, and find out her interests. connect with her, and joke about. don't abuse her though, guys have been known to do that, but when you truly hurt us, it really p's us off. when you do ask her, be romantic, no bad cheesy lines. also, don't ask her out by text, and don't get a friend to do it. she will most likely say no to that, or say yes, and joke. this is because often, we think it is just a joke, and you are not being serious.
Be yourself. I'm sure you've heard this time and time again, but be real with her. Try to let her know what you like about her. Whether you write a note, or do it in person, be yourself. Whatever you do (and I don't know how old you are), but whatever you do, do NOT send someone else to her. She'll love you if you are serious and respectful.
Just slide right up to her and ask her to go to dinner with you now dont be cheasy. You may like mc'donalds however she will not bring her somewhere she has never been. Cant afford dinner? ask her to come hang out with you and your homies. First impression is everything.


Now go get her


peace,


Mr.Love Daddy
well my boyfriend asked me through a text DONT DO THAT!


ask them if they wanna go to a dance wiht you.


Become close friends then ask


figure out if she likes you and then ask her out


idk any others im only in 1st yr. of middle school


just remeber


NOT THRO TEXT, PHONE CALL, EMAIL, OR A FRIEND!!!
I agree. Girls dont like guys who act differently just be urself if she likes you than thats great and youll know its because you were yourself. If not than move on to the next girl.
The only way to get a good girl is to just be yourself. Oldest rule in history.
well what atracted her to you in the first place just be the guy that she likes and you have no worries :)
like the lady under me said..be urself and nothing by ur self..

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Who gives the best advice concerning M/D?

Someone in a long term uneventful relationship or someone who has experienced(in great abundance) the best and worst life has to offer?Who gives the best advice concerning M/D?
Either/Or. The best advice comes from people with first-hand experience WHO HAVE USED THIER EXPERIENCE TO LEARN AND GROW.





Sometimes the best advice isn't acknowledged because it doesn't validate the person who's asking the question. Giving good advice and accepting good advice takes maturity on both sides.Who gives the best advice concerning M/D?
It depends not on the experience itself, but on how the person has processed this experience. Some can learn a lot from a limited scope of experiences, and others learn nothing at all from a wide variety of experiences. Wisdom can come from experience, from contemplation, or from combination of both. Simply having a lot of experience does not make you wise - you have to have processed this experience in some way.

Is this the best advice to a newly married couple?

At my granddaughter's wedding, the DJ polled the guests to see who had been married longest. It turned out to be my husband and I. The DJ asked us, ';What advice would you give to the newly-married couple?';





I said, ';The three most important words in a marriage are, 'You're probably right.'';





Everyone then looked at my husband. He said, ';She's probably right.';Is this the best advice to a newly married couple?
ha ha ha, must get him to remember that, pmslIs this the best advice to a newly married couple?
Sounds good. I was only married for 19 years as my wife died. But, I would say that 3 important words should be:





Learn how to argue! (Oh that is four)





Do not be selfish (oops four again)





Respect (darn one word)





But there are three things... there are a lot more..





Keep going with your marriage, it stinks to be alone and when you get older there aren't a lot of good choices out there for starting over again with some else. Not impossible but very hard.
The answer to every question or request should be ';yes, dear';. remember your partner is your friend, not your property; marriage shouldn't change the way you think about the person.
Lol good advice =]
yes i agree lol
At my cousin's wedding it was


';Once a king, always a king, once a queen, always a queen, but once a knight is enough!';
hahahaha spousal diplomacy
Yes yes and yes.........
you are right because agreement is the best way to avoid fighting
hahaha very good.

What's the best advice you've been given?

And did you ignore it ?What's the best advice you've been given?
don't count your chickens, I did...........and paying for it!What's the best advice you've been given?
I do that at bedtime and all........LOL





Ta for BA!

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Don't sh*t where you eat. No.
never ever give up. i have a tendency to give up quickly
there has been so much but, to choose one thing....be aware of your surroundings at all times.
Stay single...............





Every time I ignore it, eventually I end up getting hurt!!!!!!
live today and not tomorrow. I'm trying
Do unto others as they would do unto you, ';But, do them first!'; My Irish Dad used to say that to me. And, sure enough, I haven't been screwed lately!
Get a lawyer, and i did.
To stand very still and walk backwards.





I did, and soon found out that where i had been was on a snow covered mountain top, 4 ft over the edge on a snow and ice overhang. Had i stayed there or walked further would have fallen at least 1000ft.....





My mate saved my life that day and was the best advice ever given....
If it ain't broke, don't fix it





No I didn't ignore that one !
Live your life for yourself, not for others!


I followed the instructions. They were from my mom!





Another of my favourites, from my mom is:


If you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all. And people wonder why I'm so quiet. LOL
never go back to the scene of the crime
never get a credit card, and dont buy something unless you have the money in your pocket.





my Dad drilled that into us and i would never even dream of getting a credit card now. probably never will, and im almost 26 now.
Life isn't a rehersal. It's better to regret what you have done than what you haven't.
don't worry be happy
Be afraid to fail. And no, I keep it in mind a lot.
Keep smiling it fooks em!


my cousin always told me that and he is right!!xx
It is the journey, not the arrival, that matters most. It refers to life. And yes, I listened.
If you think you can you probably will,





If you think you cant, you wont!
Don't put your hand in the fire. Now I have no hands.
Aim for the moon, because even if you miss you'll land amongst the stars. And i try and follow it, i always try my best at everything.
never make a promise unless you plan on keeping it, and no i did not ignore it, i live by that, its something my grandfather told me as a very young child, and i turned 50 today and still believe the same way

What was the best advice you've ever had?

a broken relationship is like a broken mirror!


its better to leave it broken than to hurt yourself trying to fix it!





sad but true!





another more upbeat and abit of a naughty one would be-





the average size of a mans c*** is 7'; hard!


thats just long enough to push his wallet out of his pocket ;)


(lapdancing quote)What was the best advice you've ever had?
the secret. look at this and try to read the book, my mom recomended it.http://thesecret.tv/behind-the-secret.ht鈥?/a>What was the best advice you've ever had?
';two things you need to get while your young: your faith in god, and your schooling. the two things nobody can take away from ya';





that's great advise
- once a cheater, always a cheater
Swallow.
dont use flacid objects for the cargo holdings maybe fall out?
';MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS';-- it really helps!!
You better do it as well as you said or I am so breaking up with u!
Never give anyone your soul.
keep that thing in your pants....my father

What's the best advice for someone who is struggling with a sin?

PRAY day and night without ceasing. It is helpful if you confide in another Christian that they might also pray for you. The effective fervent prayer of a righteous man availeth much. Have a great evening. I will say a prayer for you this evening, also.


EdsWhat's the best advice for someone who is struggling with a sin?
HAve you accepted Jesus Christ as your personal savior? Ask him for forgivness. We are all sinners. Jesus died on the cross because of our sins.What's the best advice for someone who is struggling with a sin?
Prayer of course. Man is nothing without God. Pray for strength to leave the sin and understanding and guidence never to return to it. The woman caught in adultury, Jesus told her to ';go and sin no more';. From that day on she followed Christ faithfully!
I've struggled with sin all of my life (of a sexual nature), just shrugging it off as being human. When you start to think ';well if I die tomorrow I'll go to Hell for my sins'; then you are on your way to defeating sin, well as best as you can. I guess you need to acknowledge that you are sinning, then you need to ask the Lord for forgivness and then be on your guard and not slip into that sin again.


Life holds many temptations and it's easier to give into them but we must remember that in the end this life ends and we all must stand before God and be judged (yes all you atheists too).


Hope this helps and God bless from Australia
Allow God to forgive you, and then work on trying to forgive yourself. He forgives much more easily than we do so that will be the hardest part.
To pray and fellowship your struggles and sins to people you know. Brothers and sisters. They may be able to help. However, it is good to tell people that you have a struggle in life and with this, others may be able to grow in faith.
If it's just sex, the best thing is to give in. But for God's sake use a condom.
You will overcome with Jesus
“If you’re going to miss Heaven, why miss it by two inches? Miss it!”





--Sam Kinison
It is difficult to imagine you are forgiven, if you have not forgiven yourself.





God IS Love... God is all ways God..


Therefore it is impossible for God not to love..





It is possible to IMAGINE that you are not loved or forgiven, but that doesn't make it so.


It may however effect the experience of ';you';.





Love is a GIFT..... is not something you have to EARN.





Forgiveness is to GIVE BEFORE it is asked.....
PRAY for deliverance from sin and the HOLY SPIRIT!!!





GOD bless you.
It depends on the sin. If a serious one, ask for help. If less serious just try to get past it. sin is apart of life. i6t happends, dont stress too much. If it's bothering you that much go to your priest or preacher.
The best advice is to keep practicing the sin until you become an expert at it.





:D
We all are. The best new is that God loves us, and Jesus died for all of our sins.
First, stop ';struggling';. Now ask yourself ';who am I' %26amp; be very still %26amp; listen. This may take years of practise but the answer will amazed you. Of course you can ';believe'; anything you want, but you really want to ';know'; don't you?
pray, and welcome to my world!
Join other sinners struggling with their sin. It's called a church.
Find out what are the core causes of that sin. Find out when/where and why they are tempted with that sin. And try to have them avoid those situations and replace those times with more God honoring activities.
Practice, practice, practice then you can get that sinnin' right.
Don't give up. . Ask for forgiveness and try again. Seek God for the strength to overcome it.

What is the'; best advice ';you ever had in life ? from who ?did u follow ?or still trying?

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peace !What is the'; best advice ';you ever had in life ? from who ?did u follow ?or still trying?
';He who is without sin cast the first stone.'; - Jesus





I'm not perfect at this one but I do try.What is the'; best advice ';you ever had in life ? from who ?did u follow ?or still trying?
To take responsibility for my life and actions. This means that one must overcome the problem of shifting blame. Even if it does appear that some other party is to blame for one's misfortune, by believing this one essentially disempowers oneself.


Far better to believe that on some unconscious level one participated in the cause of such ';woeful'; events for the reason of growth and realization - spiritual, psychological or otherwise. Even if it is not true it leads to empowerment, so I choose to believe this.





My life has changed unbelievably for the better since I stopped playing the ';victim'; card.





Moreover when you have a relationship with someone that has had the same realization, you can actually have an honest relationship. Express yourself sincerely and honestly without being fearful of ';hurting their feelings';. (Of course that does not mean that one goes around being nasty, one must still be gentle in one's approach, but one has the space to express one's pent up anger / frustration etc without being thought of as ';immature';). Of course anger and frustration should never become ';pent up'; in the first place. This is the ultimate in freedom and the ultimate in terms of honoring oneself. You're having so-called ';negative'; emotions for a reason, honor yourself by allowing them the airtime so as to actually change those things in your life that they are ';complaining about';. Our upbringing programs us to dishonor these feelings. At the same time, realize that you cannot change other people to fit a mold, but that you can change your own perceptions and work on that. Each life experience presents us with a growth challenge.





PS: I would disagree to a point with AuroraDawn's statement from the point of view that ';thinking before we act'; can often result in dishonoring our own emotional self. Your immediate thoughts and emotions are telling you about how you feel about a situation and one will never be fulfilled if one does not pay attention to these (and act upon them, either by expressing them or making changes to one's life that they are resolved).





Of course this could become an argument to justify say murder for example, so we must be careful - we are in a predicament where there is so much ';pent up'; frustration and anger that we must ';think before we act'; especially if we're feeling aggressive or nasty. However after working with these issues for some time and resolving some of these issues we no longer need to ';think before we act'; and life becomes pure ';living in the moment';. So, I agree and disagree with her, it depends on where you're ';at';.
';Do that which makes you feel good ABOUT yourself- as opposed to doing only that which makes you feel good.';


Very simplistic words spoken very casually,that had a huge impact on my life.


Advice from a friend.


Varies how much I follow those simple words-but am much happier when I do.





Blessings and peace.
20 minutes of random paging on wikiquote.





And no I forgot most of it so following is hard.
';Cocaine is a great high but one you can't control'; - My Dad





I lost all curiosities after he told me that.
';Let your heart defy your logic'; (missing you...)





I live by it everyday...
Think before you act.

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What's the best advice you have...?

That is also a song lyric?





Mine would be ';Don't look back into the sun';


From Don't look back into the sun - The Libertines.What's the best advice you have...?
';I was detained I was restrained,


You broke my spleen and broke my knee and then you really laced into me,


Friday night in out-patients,


Who said I'd lied to her....';


Stop me by The Smiths


Lesson? Don't ever lie to your partnerWhat's the best advice you have...?
'If you can't forgive and forget,


How's this,


Forget forgivin' and just accept that that's it',


See that's how it's gotta be.


Then you can fall in love, get on with your life and be free';,








Dan Le Sac Vs Scroobius Pip - Waiting For The Beat To Kick In





Amazing Song Tbh :)
This is our decision, to live fast and die young.


We've got the vision, now let's have some fun.


Yeah it's overwhelming, but what else can we do?


Get jobs with offices, and wake up for the morning commute?


Time to Pretend - MGMT





it's probably not the best, but it's all I can think of (that's not Spice Girls) because I used it last night on an acquaintance.
i get along singing my song, people tell me i'm wrong, **** em....





I get along - the libertines :)
work it harder make better do it faster makes us stronger - harder, better, faster, stronger - daft punk
';Destroy everything'; - hatebreed
don't eat yellow snow or lick chocolate off a stranger's finger!
Worry looks around


Sorry looks back


Faith looks up
Seize the day!
Dont let the b*stards get you down.
Keep A+ Positive Mental Attitude (PMA+) !
One day at a time
Roll with it
its better to burn out than fade away
Make the most of what you have
dont look back in anger oasis
It's not about black or white, cuz we're human

Hair help!! (10 points for best advice!!!)?

I need tips to keep my hair healthy. does anyone have any tips they use, or any shampoo/conditioner they recommend? if possible, may you send a website of easy tips? thank you so muchHair help!! (10 points for best advice!!!)?
Use a strenght shampoo and conditioner


Use the same brand of shampoo and conditioner


Try to put as little heat as possible to your hair.


Try not to put product in your hair.





I recommend Paul Micheal.Hair help!! (10 points for best advice!!!)?
Here's some tips to keep your hair healthy:


.Brush it regularely


.Eat fruits and drink lots of water


.Always wash your hair (its okay to skip a day every once and a while)


.Half an hour before washing your hair, rub coconut milk onto your scalp. This will also make your hair shinier.


.At nighttime before bed, its best to give your hair 50-100 strokes with the brush.


.Make sure that you trim your hair regularly. This prevents damaged and split ends.





Hope this helped!
well i use pantene for bothand my hair has been healthyer than it has been in a long time so theres my advise



The BEST thing to do is to try and only wash it every other day so that your natural oils will condition it.





Also when you do wash it you should shampoo twice. you will notice that the first shampoo doesnt lather as much as your second becuase the first round only gets out the product.



ok this is weird but i use costco brand shampoo/cond. it doesn't sound good but it is awesome!! you can put things like eggs in your hair and avocado, they keep it really healthy and shiny!


hope i helped :)
well not really shampoo stuff but drinking fish oil and flaxseed oil help keep your hair healthy. even though it sounds nasty, it helps alot. i tried drinking it everyday for three months and it helped alot!
well i would say the best stuff around is aussie 3 minuet Miracle its about 5 pounds a bottle or u can by a small packet for about 96p u put it on your hair after u shampoo and leave it in for 3 mins but i say 5 its more better lol then Wash it out with cool water is makes it shine more.and bobs your uncle u got nice smooth silky shiny hair x x x x x hope that helps
well you can use baby shampoo because it actually gets you hair really soft. But can make your hair dry. So i would recommened using the purple bottle with the kangaroo on it it works good with my hair.
i use Garnier Fructuse Daily Care. then when i rinse the conditioner out i use cool water and if i want to get a little more shine use Silk Drops serum
Biolage smooththerapie. For a salon product, it is cheap (where I get it, its like 10-12 dollars per bottle) and really makes your hair shiny, smooth, and healthy. Be sure to not use a bunch of conditioner and shampoo, it will make your hair drier and could cause build up, though.

What is your best advice on life .......?

and what you would consider to be your life at its greatest point?What is your best advice on life .......?
First seek the kingdom of God, then all things will be added to you. The closer you move towards God, the better your life will be, but when you become self thinking and haughty you will be humbled. I have tried both ways and I finally chose God. I came from a very lowly beginning and today I have so much of everything that it amazes me.Believe me, there is no other way.What is your best advice on life .......?
such an awesome advice :)

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take it day by day, and live it happy. live it like theres no tomorrow and dont second guess things, because you may never again get the chance to do what you may sit and question or say what you havent said! Be real to yourself and to everyone around you. I think everyones life at their greatest point it when you feel happy and complete with everything you do.
LIVE IT, LOVE IT being urself not soemone u wanna b.. dance in teh rain alittle, watch a thunderstorm adn dance to the rythm, watch the sun set, dance to a wacky but fun song, be dorky, or fun, make a joke,scream out loud just for the hell of it!....LIVE life, dont regret it! theres always time...nvr think otherwise....adn no regrets....remember...what happens happens and theres nothing u can change, just live on from there..adn ull see it fits in with reality adn destiny...:)
think about your life after this. the greatest part of my life is when i will see my Best Friend
Learn to let go not only of misery but unrealistic dreams. Life flows and hanging on is a waste of energy. There is more wisdom than is first seen in the expression ';Even when you fall on your face, you're still moving forward';
Life should NOT be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in an attractive and well-preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, Coleman fuel in one hand, and Chile peppers in the other, body thoroughly used up, totally worn out and screaming, ';WOO HOO, what a ride!!!';
Live each day as if it is your last. Love each day as if it is your last. Say ';I love you'; every day to those you do love. Carpe diem ... seize the day.





Every moment, every instant of life is its greatest point .... each moment is like no other, and can never be recalled. Just to be is the greatest.
Don't sweat the little things. Everything but your family and friends are the little things. Take time to tell your family you love them every opportunity you get because you just never know if its the last time you'll see them. The healing power of laughter is beyond renumeration. God put us here to love him and to be happy. Beer is proof of his love for us.
Never give up. And the greatest point of my life comes and goes! I love my life! I've worked hard to love my life! And believe me! I've had plenty of downfalls! I met my boyfriend and I swear on every living thing, it was love at first sight! Now we have two beautiful daughters and are still so much in love that sometimes we sicken people with the sight of us! I love it!
Get a job and wait for payday.
go with your gut because your anus has no choice but to follow it
Everyday you see the gift in existence and choose to show GOD your thanks by serving him and those he has created with needs.
m.o.b......don't ask.
buy low, sell high
When the good comes to bad or the bad comes to good I must live my life like I should!
Never get a credit card!


Don't waste your money on college unless you're going to work in the medical field.

Why do I scared of heart broken? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?

For many years I am scared to fall in love. I don't have a boyfriend because I am scared of heart broken and disappointment.





I am really scared. What should I do? Please advice.Why do I scared of heart broken? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
Nothing wrong with the fear or scare even it is about love. The fear comes from the thing we don't know or the risk about the outcomes that may not come as we expect and we cannot control. So educate and read more about men if that what you want to have one. I attahced some counselling website about love affair( you may not need to believe all of them) .


However, life is the journey and the goodness of life is to experience what ever good or bad. The one who not fail in anything is the one who do nothing! Young girl. You need not to have boyfriend if you are not feel like to. Nothing wrong with that too. Your scare of heart broken is ok as a self defence process but your worry need not to be overwhelm to get over your opportunity to search of good one. Try gradually to educate yourself and learn about the boy. You may start by having just good male friend.


And again ,Disappointment is one of the learning process. To my belief, If you never have a broken heart once in your life, I thing you miss a little good part /feeling about your jouney in life. Good luckWhy do I scared of heart broken? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
Be strong you dont need a man to make u happy you have to love yourself before you want someone to love you if you find a guy that you think is a keeper dont bet the farm on him
Your scared of rejection.


Your scared that your not pretty enough.


Face your fears.


Go to a club,dance with some guys.


it will build your confidence.
the best way to grow is from your experiences


the only way to find the one you love is to opening up yourself to the world


and of course, the sacrifice you have to make is the possibility of getting hurt.





reboundersworld.com--it's time to bounce back!
its ok.


give urself a chance..


live ur life
Everyone who falls in love with the one* is scared to be heart broken. (count me in) But to be scared to be heartbroken for the rest of your life?


You must take chances! Look carefully for the right man.


Be somewhat mysterious to get him going. Don't be too clingy. It's sometimes nice to keep the guy guessing.


Make him go *(GA-GA) for you with your looks, great qualities, personailty and character.


Be fun and great to hang out with. Get the guy who's not just finding their way into your pants. (biigg no. even if the guys hot.) He must be interested in you from top to bottom, in and out. - if you catch my drift.


Anyways, that's all I can say. good luck in finding the best man. =D
A broken heart terrifies me too. But you get tired of being alone. Take it slowly but be prepared to open up. All I know is, the song you asked about, '; I think of you,'; is perfect. That song sums up how I get through my day. Take care...

Please help? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?

How do you know you are/were in love? How do you know it is not something else like lust, adore, care for? How can you be out of love?





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I ask this question because I believe thinsg are relative. There are no absolute answer of love and relationship. Agree or disagree?





For example,





A and B have been dating for 8 months. They think they have dated for a long times.





On the other hand,





C and D have been dating for 2 years. They think they are still new to the relationship.Please help? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
I'm getting married in 2 months. My fiance %26amp; I both can't believe that we've only known each other for 2 years.





I guess all I can offer is my experience. I thought I was in love before %26amp; in hindsight it's ridiculous. All of my relationships were lacking something. There was a lot of fighting, no trust, a lot of drama %26amp; awkwardness. I always felt like I was forcing it to work. It didn't flow very freely.





When I met my fiance, I thought . . . wow, he's just like me. He cares about the same things, he has morals, he doesn't cheat on people, he isn't fake, he's upfront, he answers questions quickly, he's polite to waiters, he has class, he can discuss politics without blowing a fuse, he's smart, totally open, had nothing to hide. I ALWAYS felt that my ex's had something to hide. I could just tell.Please help? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
Being in love is the most wonderful thing to have. It feels like your on a cloud and no one else is there but the two of you. The reason why c and d feel like there still in a new relationship is because there in so much love with each other. If both of you are really in love with each other then you well know it like you well feel like you got butterfly's in your stomach. You can't stop thinking about that person plus you can't wait to see them again and when you two make love oh man it feels like the most hot romantic thing to have that you can't stop wanting it all the time.
Everybody is different, some people date for six months and then get married and some date for 2 years and get married. In order for it to last, not to matter how long you dated, if have to have a give and take marriage and the both of you have to be committed to each other.When you fall in love with somebody, you'll know it. You'll want to do things for that person, take care of that person and give whatever it takes to make that person happy.
A%26amp; B probably based their relationship on physical issues from the begining and now they are bored from each other because there was no basis of what they are really to each other than great in bed! ANd this fades away after a while. Meanwhile, C%26amp;D took their time to know each other adn hav ecommon groud. THey are able to go without sex adn yet have good time with each other and share things with each other adn because they are into each other they allow each other to grow thus finding new things about themselves as individuals and as a couple, THey tend to try new things and make their life interesting becaus ethey took their time to build a relationship on mor ethan physical attraction.


Hope this helps!
This says it all, and I know some people may think it's a silly answer, but it really is true. Think about each line. It actually sums up a lot of what people have already posted, and it's been there all along:





';LOVE is patient and kind;


LOVE is not jealous or boastful;


it is not arrogant or rude.


LOVE does not insist on its own way;


it is not irritable or resentful;


it does not rejoice at wrong,


but rejoices in the right.


LOVE bears all things, believes all things,


hopes all things, endures all things.


LOVE never ends 鈥?quot;


1 Corinthians 13:4-8a, 13





Basically, love is mature. It is calm. You truly care for the other person in every way, not in the ways you think you can change them or because of what they can do for you, or how they make you feel. You just want them to be happy above all things and you guard their trust in you with all your heart.
Relationships are like people, no two are alike. How many stories have we heard of 2 ppl meeting and within days or weeks get married and have a happy life for years. Or others who wait for years to marry only to divorce within a couple years.


I feel if you love someone they are all you think about, they are the first person you think of when you have news to share. They are the last thought you have before closing your eyes at night and the first thing we think of when we wake up.


So guess I agree with you that there is no absolute....Just know when we find that true love we must cherish it and respect it and never take it for granted as we never know what tomarrow will bring
I knew I was in love when we had our first fight, and I didn't want him to leave. I know that sounds strange, but you are supposed to be best friends with the person you marry, and the fact that the only person I wanted when I hurt that badly (it was a big fight) was my husband.


Everyone has a different definition of love and how they know they are in love. It is relative, but love is a universal concept.
Depends on the people. If two people are mentally ready for a long term relationship, ie marriage, a few months is all they need to know if they can and will love that person forever.





My parents met on Halloween and were married in March and have been together for 41 years. Not all loving years, but they were years nonetheless.
Love is the best feeling in the world, no matter if it is with a partner, a child, family, or friends.





When you are IN LOVE, you will know it. You will still get butterflies even after days/weeks/months/years and it will never go away. You would do anything in the WORLD to be with the person you love, and they would do the same. When you are sad, they are sad, when you are hurt, they are hurt, etc. Love is an amazing thing, and for the ones who experience it...they wouldn't give it up for ANYTHING =]
I think you have to search deep inside yourself to find the answer to whether you are/were in love. It's a question that can be hard to answer depending on your emotional state. But I know mutual respect is one of the most important things in a relationship along with the obvious ones.
man only look for lust, because nature has made them for reproduction activity, as a result a man can father 100 children, but a woman can't bear 100 children. So generally love is only from women, and as it is - one side love is not exactly a love, its just an attraction.
when in love, the world just seems like a better place.


you embrace every second of every day.





being in love is like enjoying a tastyy meal. you consume it with every inch of your being. texture, smell, tast, appearance etc.





your seances take over and you consume every part of a person. smile, eyes, hair, skin, smell, hands, lips, touch etc.





And I agree.
Hope--I had somewhat similar questions and i have learned something...when I was 14 i started dating this guy my first BF we experienced teenage love...my family went through divorce and things just couldn't work out at the time....we hooked up again when i was 21 but seeing other people...i moved away 10 years came back...and here we are again except i know its LOVE...the lust part comes in when there is no self control regarding your values, beliefs and you are not honoring your self in the relationship that's why AB may be closer than CD...honoring self and relationship....hope this works...
Lasting marriages and relationships are about what faults you can tolerate. Everyone will do things to annoy you, but is it something you can look past or something you can not live with. Find someone you can tolerate cause no one is perfect!
Love is different for everyone. The key is finding that special someone who would describe it the same way you do. For my husband and I love is respect, trust, and knowing that there is nobody else out there who makes you feel wonderful.
love is a very fickle thing it is different for everybody, i think it starts with phsyical attraction, turns to lust, and then eventually love
If you can avoid the following: wanting what you are not prepared to give.


Then you will be fine in love. Otherwise your not ready and don't know that love is about sacrifice.
because it will be something you have never experienced...felt...endured with ANYONE else..you can sense if they are hurting or not hurting





i was 40 when I finally found that out..lot of toads before the prince

Whats the best and worst advice you have ever been given?

best - stick up for yourself, dont let no one bully you, be nice to people but they be bastards to you - dont tell no one, just fight them and show them that you dont take **** from people











Worst: you really dont want to knowWhats the best and worst advice you have ever been given?
Best : no one is worth your tears


Worse: yea maybe you're right, maybe this life is not worth living [but i fixed it up later lol]Whats the best and worst advice you have ever been given?
i told my friend to break up with her bf right b4 he was going to tell her he loved her


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Best: Fra, drop the bass and give me a hug, you can't possibly play in these conditions! (Dean my guitarist, after seeing me heartbroken because of my parent's divorce)





Worst: Put your grungy laundry on your head, that'll make us unique!





-Skidd the drummer.
My teachers give loads of advice, most of it has nothing to do with anything..


Best: ';When in doubt, should choose C'; My math teacher trying to help us on what to do for the math exam


Worst: ';Deadline is Friday. Git'r'done!'; My history teacher giving us motivation to finish an essay..
Best: Shoot for the moon even if u miss u will land among the stars- Bring out your simplicities and accentuate your differences - Never wish to be someone else because you never know where they are going in life or where they came from - Better to be uplifted by criticism than ruined by praise





I have never heard this criticism but I know people that have been told this WORST - Change who you are so that you will be popular, and fit into mainstream society
Best - Dump his dumb, cheating a$$.


Worst - Telling mom to look through my dads phone, %26amp; see all the sexting he had been doing. It totally broke her into a million pieces. I felt like such a d!ck for telling her do that.
best: forget the past, it does almost no good, just learn from it.





worst: uhhh, go drink, it'll make you cool. luckily i learned from the hangover the next day. (i still grimace thinking about it)
Best: Dream big, don't let anything get in your way.





Worst: Condoms always work...
best: forget the people in yer past, there's a reason they didn't make it to yer future.





worst: oh, he's the one for you :(
Best: ';Slit the inner sides of your tighs, he'll think you're on your period and will leave you alone.';





That actually worked really well.





Worst: ';Run away from home!';





Uh, like that's going to help? ¬_¬ If I would get caught I would be killed, probably by getting beaten up to death, thank you.

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Whats the best advice u can give someone....?

who is unsure of there relationship with a guy they've been seeing 6 months.





she does like him...but she has unsure days...!?Whats the best advice u can give someone....?
I'd say ';Shake 'em, you wont break 'em';Whats the best advice u can give someone....?
if all you have to worry about is some guy then you are privileged, least you aint catching scrapnel in afganistan living like an animal in the field whilst being hunted by the taliban, grow the buck up.
Everyone has doubts when dating and that is because no one person is perfect. Either you will feel it or you won't. Believe me, you know when it is the right person.

Whats the best advice uve ever been given?

im just wondering


ill choose best answerWhats the best advice uve ever been given?
just before i lost my dad, he said to me ';kee go for whatever you want, you can do whatever you set your mind to, when i returned home from spain after losing him i took his advice and went for a very overqualified job, and to my amazement i was offered the job. been there a year now and doing really well....xWhats the best advice uve ever been given?
No matter how bad the situation may be at this point in your life, if you keep looking for something good to happen it will so stop looking for the bad or that's all you will find!





True!
';Before your reasons cloud your eyes, you could rule the world if you wanted to';
en este mundo todo se paga!! which means in this world u pay for it @ the end!! no one leaves this world w/o getting a lil taste of their own mediciane. what comes around goes around!!
'; Life doesn't have to be perfect to be wonderful ';
Be yourself

Whats the best advice to tell a friend?

whats the best advice to tell a friend? cause all she do is wanna die and die. and i try my best telling her what i feel inside and whats she needs to know she tell me that im the only one who cares for her but she not listenin to what i tell her can something help me.Whats the best advice to tell a friend?
tell her death doesn't guarantee to ease her pain


tell her that if you're the only one who cares for her, she should listen to you


even if no one loves her, there is at least one person who loves her (maybe you?)Whats the best advice to tell a friend?
not sure what to tall you but I have a very emo friend and she wanted to die so bad that she asked me to cut her trout but I said no and well pissed her off.... then I asked her if she loved her pet cat she said yes I said if you die I'd feel just as bad/sad as you would if your cat deid... she feet way better after that

Need the best advice and suggestions that you can give me please.?

I get desperate a lot of times when I cannot purchase what I want and when I need it. See, I now have real bad credit because when I bought my first home, which has been foreclosed now, I started to think the wrong way because I got all these offers of credit cards to use for stuff for my home. Well, I am really paying real tough for all of that now, because I realize that I cannot get credit cards anymore, not even one for a low limit, and I have felt so embarassed and useless so many times! You know, I am paying for all of my ';dumb'; ';immature'; thinking. I lost my home because my husband and I got seperated and I could not afford the home by myself, and then I had to just quit paying on my credit cards because I had so much debt! I am in the process of trying to repair my credit, with the help of someone who I can trust, but, it will take a long while I assume. I used to sell Avon when I was living in my new home, however, I even had bad organizing with that back then, and I think....Need the best advice and suggestions that you can give me please.?
I would love to help you, both on the credit question and with helping you make a little extra money. I will include my e-mail, feel free to e-mail me at anytime, I can give you my phone number from there. I have a BA in Psychology so I'm good at just listening.





Now-- as for the credit, the best thing to do is just get one credit card- you can actually pay $75 for a card with a $500 from First Premier Bank or Orchard Bank. They will approve anyone, and it sucks that you have to pay for it- but it is the best way to build your credit.


You also want to go to www.myfico.com - that's Suze Ormann's site, and pay $15.00 for a credit report. You also want to pay $7.95 for MY Fico. This is awesome because it will let you know IMMEDIATELY on a daily basis what your FICO (credit) rating is and whether it's going up or down. It will let you know if someone makes an inquiry, etc.





Finally, I'm a Mary Kay consultant, and it's gotten me out of some hard times. I know that you want to spend time with your family, and that's why the Mary Kay rule (that Mary Kay herself made up is ) ';Faith First, Family Second, Career Third.'; Every woman in the company will tell you this, and they will support you, both in your own life, and in reaching your goals-- both personally and professionally.





I'd love to talk to you more about this-- feel free to contact me.





-Rebecca


rosepetals220@yahoo.comNeed the best advice and suggestions that you can give me please.?
If you would like a way to make extra income to help pay off your debts then contact me at jessica_downing2@hotmail.com
If you need extra money, then either work overtime at your current job, or get a second job.





Marty Kay is emphatically not a way to make money. 50% of the consultants gross under $140 per year, with a negative income of -$100 or more. IOW, their ';business'; loses at least $100 per year. Any money put in Mary Kay is money that you wasted.


99% of the Mary Kay Consultants earn less than $17,000 per year. You literally would make more money working full time flipping hamburgers at the local McDonald's.





Avon offers almost as good a chance at losing money, as Mary Kay does.





Do not get a credit card. If you can not afford to pay cash,. you definitely can not afford to use a credit card. No ifs, ands, or buts.





If your credit is as bad as you imply, your APR will be at least 21%, and possibly as much as 40% per annum. If a payment gets to the bank late, your APR will go up. If you skip a payment on other debt, the APR on your credit card will go up. If a payment on any other debt is late, the APR on your credit card will go up.





Pay cash for everything. If you can't afford to pay cash, you can not afford to buy it. End of story.





Resist putting purchases on ';easy pay';, or similar payment plans. If you can't afford to pay in full at the time of purchase, you can not afford to buy the product. End of story.





Until you have $10^6 sitting in a bank, you will need to learn to discipline yourself,and not buy anything except food and shelter. [And clothes once a year --- if your current clothes are worn out.]





I'd also suggest reading _The Millionaire Next Door_. [Check it out of your local library, or buy it from a used book store, or thrift store.]

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What the best advice you have ever been given?

what is it and why is it the best??





best answer gets a guaranteed 10 pts!!What the best advice you have ever been given?
Always count the money when they give it to you.What the best advice you have ever been given?
Buy Coke shares. Bought them years ago, they help me retire at 53.
';Keep an open mind.'; It's the best because it's pretty much all-purpose.
my father told me to never have children


i'm so happy i listened to him
dont eat yellow snow
hate the sin not the sinner
';Illigitimi non carborundum'; (don't let the bastards grind you down).


It's the best advice because it got me to thinking positively %26amp; not giving in to the negative thoughts of others.
Keep in mind that you are always responsible for the consequences of your actions. It sort of forces me to treat


people as I would like them to treat me. It seems like the majority of my resulting experiances have been good ones.
if you can't dazzle them with your brilliance then baffle them with your bullshit...LOL
In an effort to impress upon me, that I am responsible for my own decisions, and not to depend on others, , my Dad said to me: ';You must learn to paddle your own canoe.'; For the longest time, I really did not understand what he was saying to me. This was in the depths of the great depression of the 1930's when we were lucky to have food on the table, let alone own a canoe. It came to me years later, and I understood perfectly what he had said to me many years before.

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I need advice about what is the best to do with my boy friends pet.?

My boyfriend just tragically passed away and I do not know what to do with his pet, a big Pastor Aleman, if a give it away, it is like if I am forgetting all about him, and I am in such a pain for his loss, on the other side, the dog gives me a lot to do, I do not have patience. I am confusedI need advice about what is the best to do with my boy friends篓pet.?
When dealing with loss, one of the hardest things to do is give away, sell or trade things that belonged to the person who passed because you feel like you are letting pieces of that person go, or you feel like you are betraying them and what they would have wanted. Thats the natural course of grief.





First see if a family member or friend can take the dog and care for it.... and if not then you need to think about what you should do. If you do not have the time to care for this dog in the full way that it needs, then your boyfriend would want you to do right and send the dog to a loving home that can care for it as it should be.





First look for shelters in your area that do NOT put animals down if they do not get adopted. Most often these places are very strict as to who they let adopt these animals. Many of these shelters will also let you know if the dog was adopted and it can give you peace of mind.





Just know that your boyfriend would want what is best for his pet, as well as what is best for you... you need to know that it's ok to do what is right...





I am sorry for your loss





TawnyI need advice about what is the best to do with my boy friends篓pet.?
Just give him up. I'm really sorry about your loss but don't suffer just because he left a pet. Surrender him to an animal shelter
This may sound unusual, but I suggest that you enter an obedience class for you and the dog. You'll go to class once a week (for 7 to 9 weeks) and practice at how daily. You and the dog will be working through the pain together. You may find this will help you more than you can imagine. You will also have experienced people to help you learn about how to handle any problems.
ITS YOUR CHOICE,if the pet is too much for you right now find a good home for him
Find a good home or take him to your local animal shelter; they will find a good home for you. Sorry about your loss and good luck
You could ask his vet, or a rescue service to help you place in a good home. But first see if any family members or his friends can take it in.
Finding a good and loving home for the dog does not mean that you are rejecting the memory of your loved one. Dogs require a lot of time and energy - if it's more than you can handle, it's best to find someone who will. So sorry for your loss.
Would a family member of his or someone else you know and are close to like to have it?? If so maybe you could still be apart of it's life. Bless your heart, Good Luck
First, try to see if he's got any family members who want to take the dog. If not, give him to a friend or someone who can give him a good home and take care of him. If you can't find anyone, try to give him to an animal rescue thing so someone else out there can adopt the dog..





sorry to hear bout your loss..
take him out and drop him off somewheres
I think maybe you should speak to one of his family members or a friend. While you may not have the patience to care for him, there are others that were close to him that may appreciate this chance to have a piece of him.
If it gives you such a pain, just hire a pet sitter. But, if you do get rid of it then just get a picture of him from his parents. Also, I am so sorry for such a tradgic loss. It will be okay, I promise.
I think that you should do what is best for you. Believe me, you won't forget all about him if you give his pet away. It might be a therepeutic step for you to give him away because you can prove to yourself that you are moving on and are ready for whatever life can bring you. I am so sorry that your boyfriend died!

Whats the best advice you can give to a teenage girl?

The best advice that I can think of to give you is...to purchase a book called chicken soup for the teenage soul...it has so many inspiring stories and advice that you can find, and is written in a language that you can understand...Never say anything negative about anyone, remember KARMA.. what goes around, comes around...always treat others as you would want them to treat you...and never ever tell a lie, there is no difference between a white lie and a big lie, it is all still a lie, if you have to hide or lie to do something...then you must be doing something wrong....Whats the best advice you can give to a teenage girl?
dont have sex!!wait till your married where a condom dont be to slutty get good grades take care of your self!!Whats the best advice you can give to a teenage girl?
Always THINK about the consequences of your actions.
Anything that comes from the heart.
Don't make any sudden decisions. Think about the long term in making decisions. Some decisions can't be reversed.
Think before you do.
live,love,laugh,fogive,and never give up
Have fun! :D

Why do my ex keep write poem about me? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?

He writes poems about us (He mentions specific events that happened between us). He posts them online.





Thank you..Why do my ex keep write poem about me? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
because he is still in love with youWhy do my ex keep write poem about me? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
The only thing that I can say is that he head over heels in love with you!!!! That is almost cute.
He's mourning the loss of something he loved dearly.





That said he shouldn't be invading your privacy by posting initmate details on the internet.





If it continues you have a good case for harassment (used to be a police officer, so I know) see how it goes, if it doesn't dwindle after a while then maybe you will need to go and speak to an understanding officer, they won't think you're silly for being upset about it, harassment can get very serious.





Can you ask someone mutual to approach him and ask him to stop doing this?





Try not to get sucked in, whilst he's getting a response from you he's fulilling a need, if he thinks you're not bothered he should get bored.





Give him some time (as long as it's not been going on for months or even years) if it continues, nip it in the bud and report it, you don't deserve to live in fear of what he's going to do next.





Best of luck


Kez x
cuz he is obviously still in love with you


did u dump him?


cuz that would make a lot of sence
Hi. long tyme no see and i think shes right he does like you and hes afraid that he messed up too much to tell you to your face. so he reminisces and does it by poem
Can only mean one thing,true love babe or, it could mean that he is obsessive compulsive either way you can do one of two things ignore it or go back out with him and test the water very carefully, good luck.
he probably knows ur gonna read them and he is trying to reach out to u indirectly,perhaps he still wants you and knows he can capture ur attention and start relating with him this way on this note. who knows u might be tempted to call him and ask y he does this so that he can have an excuse to slowly get u where he wants u.
He is writing an artistic relationship manual for his new girlfriend. No need to be alarmed.
The reason is he probably hasn't meant anyone knew and he's remembering all the good times he had with you . how much that relationship meant to him .... maybe it helps him ... move on ,maybe he's still hurting
To appreciated the times that he had with you.


To try to get you back.





Writing old things give you a happier feeling.





he just want to express himself of how he felt about you and how much he wish he could have the time to do it all over again with you.
He is caught between having you and you driving him crazy.
I am sure he still loves you. He might be trying to put his feelings down on paper because he is to nervous to talk to you about them. Or maybe this is his way to get over you.

I cant get over my ex????I need the best advice i can get?

she's hot and she has changed a lot and i find out she was making out with guys in the ocean on her trip in mexico and she uses me as a fallback guy.and i'm Did sleep with one of her friends after she left me for a guy that only wanted her for sex and she was my first love and i want all this gone but she's also changed so much and gotten into weed ETC help me by gigving me the best advice you can give pleaseI cant get over my ex????I need the best advice i can get?
if you want to get over her go on the erasing mode block out all the communications from her don't see her don't call her don't talk to her until you are completely over her.I cant get over my ex????I need the best advice i can get?
You are doing alright. No talk for a month is a good start. You have to go look at some other girls, get your mind off the ex and renew your interests elsewhere. The hard truth is she has moved on. You need to do the same. Not easy, but you can do it. Lots of relationships do not work out the way we would wish. Its normal.
My advice is simple, kid: find another girl.

Advice on where would b the best place 2 get my tattoo n wat wuld b less painful?

I am thinkin about gettin a tattoo either just above my waist of a butterfly or just above my ankle of a heart.


I am 16 and want some advice on wat place will b the least painful n what people think will look bestAdvice on where would b the best place 2 get my tattoo n wat wuld b less painful?
Seriously consider what ever location you decide, is it going to be something you will not be embarrassed about when you are 30, or 40. And consider that tattoos require maintenance, as the ink will fade over time, and the beautiful butterfly may look like a disgusting moth or the Heart look like a kidney. I myself have 2 tattoos which I got on the spur of the moment less than five years ago, both although well cared for, have faded an incredible amount considering how short of a time span they have been completed.





That being said you should also carefully choose who gives your tattoo and not just let a friend do it for you in their parents basement. An infection of the newly applied tattoo can permanently damage the appearance. Also diseases can be spread through the needles if they are not carefully handled.





I would say after all things are considered a tattoo is a wonderful, and addicting expirience, and should not be missed. But like they said, Don't let anyone decide for you, you are going to be the one looking at it in 40 years.Advice on where would b the best place 2 get my tattoo n wat wuld b less painful?
The tattoo above your waist will probably hurt less. Generally areas that are harder, such as the ankle or foot hurt more. If you want the least amount of pain go for the softest part of your body. As for what will look best that is for you to decide. Don't let people on the internet tell you what to do.
hunni, seriously wait until your old enough! when i was 16 i wanted one really bad, i wanted a butterfly on my lower back. i am SOOOOOOOOOO happy i didnt!! now that i look back, that would have looked gay! and no offence but ur tatts sound really clich茅. get somehting that really means somehting to you hey.. seriously! those tatts sound cool at ur age, but when your 30 and have these gay butterfly tatts on your belly it will look silly !
i've heard that both places are extremely painful.


out of all of my tattoos, the back of my neck hurt the least. couldn't feel it at all.

Rational comprehensive VS Incremental Theory. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?

Please help me explain the basic concept between the two decision-making approaches. Thank youRational comprehensive VS Incremental Theory. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
Lots of fancy words how about the working mans version?Rational comprehensive VS Incremental Theory. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
DEPENDS ON A PERSON'S PERSONALITY.

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At this moment in time what would be the best advice you an pass on?

Remember to show and tell the people you love that you love them today. For tomorrow, it may be too late.At this moment in time what would be the best advice you an pass on?
Seek and fulfill your purpose in life, because death is not the tragedy... A life lived without purpose is....At this moment in time what would be the best advice you an pass on?
Problems are what we make of them....leave every problem to itself and it will sort itself out!
Live the best way you know how. Don't worry about tomorrow. Just get through one day at a time.
you are your own demise
Don't pass on.
everything will be alright in the end. if it's not alright, then i's not the end.
your first thought is your best thought on any subject--stick with it --it's who you are--you spent your whole life thinking a certain way--utilise that and you'll be fine--don't over analyze things--if you have to stop and decide if it's right or wrong--it's probably wrong

My best friend is having a baby in April, what is some good advice form a mother to a mother?

Im a mother too so I want to give her advice on how to take care of the baby and herself?My best friend is having a baby in April, what is some good advice form a mother to a mother?
Instead of giving her advice on the how to's, tell her that if she needs you for anything, you are there. Whether it be taking the baby for a few hours so she can sleep or problems with feeding etc...My best friend is having a baby in April, what is some good advice form a mother to a mother?
No offense but if you have to ask what advise to give her- you probably shouldnt be giving her any..





Just tell her what is in YOUR heart--dont rely on someone elses advice...





Give her some of you own......
there's is no advice needed.she needs your support.morally and physically.

Is be yourself really the best advice.......?

because what if yourself is shy and reserved and mean to be yourslef would defeat the purpose if you are trying to come out of your shynessIs be yourself really the best advice.......?
sometimes shyness is just cute and attractive...but i'm an old cuss, and a grampa so what do i know...


to be yourself means to not put on a front of being something you are not, try to be out going, but don't try to be an artist, unless you are an artist; don't try to be an english major unless you really are an english major...if you are a musician, be that. if you are an artist, be that. sometimes making changes is very hard to do...especially when one is trying to stop being so shy...but you really can do it, just keep working at it a little at a time...small steps makes almost anything do-able.Is be yourself really the best advice.......?
Try being someone else and see what happens.
If you can't dazzle them with brilliance,baffle them with bullsh-----!!!
You're not getting the point here


If you are this shy and reserved person


you must develop a ';new you'; that is the one that is more open and ';confident'; and ';sociable'; ---- not ';become someone else';---if it is not YOU then it is FAKE and that will never last the test of friendship or life in general let alone the test of time---it will all fall apart on you and leave you wondering who you are to begin with !! So, YES, it IS the best advice----when you are yourself-- you are accepted by people on THAT level and it is true and because it IS true--- it will endure !!!
Challenging yourself to overcome your shyness is part of yourself.





You are a self-evaluating and growing person.





Don't confuse things by thinking you can't be EVERY part of who you are, even if some parts of you are more dominant than other parts.





Live well
Always remain true to urself.Try to come out of ur shell,but do not force it,and pretend to be sth that ure not,because it will be fake.Learn to accept the things that cannot be changed,but try to change the things that u cannot stand.Be yourself,have more confidence,embrace the fact that shy people can be considered cute and attractive.Always be positive.Peace!

Poll: Does God Give The Best Advice & How?

%26amp; Is This True, Some People Say That God Gives The BEST ADVICE.. But How Can You Get His Advice If You Can't Hear Him?





And Explain.. .. Cause Im Slow..lol.. Thanks..Poll: Does God Give The Best Advice %26amp; How?
Are you really seeking The Lord God with ALL your heart?


Keep asking, keep knocking. Ask His High Priest Jesus to intercede for you, Praise Him for the answer, then WAIT God is NOT a toaster or a microwave. Nothing is instant here. it takes time and you have to be patient. When you pray with a LISTENING HEART you'll hear Him in a way that only you will understand.


He speaks softly. God knows what you need not us, and He will answer when you are ready.Poll: Does God Give The Best Advice %26amp; How?
Answers from God aren't spoken, or sent through email. They're contained in the Holy Bible- that is the Word of God. Of course, reading the entire Bible for advice gives more information and leaves you more confused. I would suggest obtaining a Student's Bible that has an index of serious subjects that you may need advice on, from abuse to love to general faith.
He cannot talk but you are getting advice on here and you can't hear anyone?


He went to a lot of trouble to have 66 letters send to you written by 40 different men and they are all on the same main subject.


You can even get them on E mail on a bunch of different sites.


Some of them even have question and answers like they do here.


If you ask a real question people will copy and paste from the bible God's answer to you. Never take someone Else's advice make sure it comes from the bible and is inspired by God his self to answer you.





Just ask what you want to know and say copy and paste from the bible so I will get the answer from God.
I remember reading about the sailors who found the culprit (Jonah) using sticks. I think it starts from your belief that you are soliciting God's advice or else it won't work. There are many ways. You can toss a coin (belief is central issue here or else it won't work).





When I open a random page of Bible and read, I usually get solution and insight that always proves true. I keep saying it is all a matter of belief or else, it is delusion, randomness or idolatry.
God is a Spirit so we can't see Him with our eyes but with our heart. Our God speaks to us only through the words of the Bible. When you read the words He is speaking to you. If you don't understand what you read just go on reading a chapter or so and then go back over what you just read and ask Him for understanding. You can pray and talk to Him and ask questions but He only speaks to us through His words so as you read on, your questions may be answered as you get more understanding. I suggest that you pick a quiet time to spend reading a chapter in Psalms or Proverbs. The best time is in the morning when you wake up. May God richly bless you!
All gods are imaginary. See www.godchecker.com





Read the book ';the god delusion'; by Richard Dawkins
NO .. nonexistent ..
When I hear voices in my head, I usually ignore them.
you pray and god will direct your life
bet your god gives some really good ----
What about Dr. Phil?

The Best Advice For Artists Looking For Record Labels?

I've been in a band since i was 12 and i am now 18. The first time we were scouted by and independent label was when we were 14. The owner of the label gave me the only piece of advice i have ever listened to and that was ';Let Them Come To You';. You can send out demo tapes to every label, promotion company,managers etc but you will never know if they have listened to them or just got lost in the piles and piles of other demo CD's. Were as if you wait till labels, promo companies and managers approach you then u know they are interested. Now you don't have to listen to any of this but all i can say is in the last 4 years we have been on 4 independent labels ranging from really small to quite big and we have just been asked to go for a meeting with SonyBMG (UK). And we have never once sent a demo CD to any label. We have ache vied everything we have done by gigging at every possible place we could and by gaining a fan base along the way.The Best Advice For Artists Looking For Record Labels?
that's exactly the best way to do it, good luck, exposure, and a good fan base will beat begging for a contract anytime, just one piece of advice, if you go into recording, and from there, touring, make sure you have about 3 albums worth of stuff behind you, touring won't allow you to write as much, but you'll still need to follow up your first release.The Best Advice For Artists Looking For Record Labels?
Good advice but no question...unless you were asking if that was good advice, lol.

What is your best advice for this situation?( 10 points for best detailed answer)?

A girl had sex with a guy about 2 months ago and they got really close after that. They had some really deep conversation and he told her he loved her. After that, one night the girl got drunk and they had sex again but she remembers doing it! On June 10 they did it again. Anyways, he had told her that night he wanted to be with her and he only wanted her. He was going away for a while, about a month, to another state and she knew that. But he told her he wanted her when he came back and he swore he wouldnt do anything with anyone and she promised him too! Well this girl had a talk with this guy the other night and the guy told her that he can't loose this other girl ( who he was good friends with before... and they were honestly good friends for a long time) he said that he can't like 2 people but he always told me he didnt like her like that, but then he said she something to change his mind. and she isnt the type of girl who will just have sex with him or anything.What is your best advice for this situation?( 10 points for best detailed answer)?
I can't see a reason to say he doesn't love you, but you didn't put a strong reason for which you can say that he loves you. The mistakes have been started from the begining, you shouldn't be having sex with someone before you confirm that he loves you, you shouldn't be deciding your love life when you are drunk. Now as the situation is, you don't have any other way then to wait and keep your promise. You shouldn't get in touch with any other man, that would complicate the whole situation, and don't get durnk either unless you find out what he things about you for sure.What is your best advice for this situation?( 10 points for best detailed answer)?
it's human instinct, you don't want what you can have. like you'd kill to be king, but when you're king, you don't wanna be king anymore. i hate to make this sound like a cold science, but hontesly, this is a perfect example. the guy prolly, did like you, and he had you. emotions, are a starnge thing. becuase sometimes when you're ';in the moment';, you say very intense things that you may or may NOT feel later on. you don't sound like a shallow lady, so you prolly aren't so naive that you can't tell the difference. you guys shared some pretty intimate instances, and at that moment when he said he that he loved you and wanted only for you to be his. he prolly ';meant'; it, at THAT time. ';in the moment';.





men's loyalties change pretty quick. women's don't. i'm a guy. i know. trust me. we have a shorter ';interest span';. it takes an emotioanlly very mature guy ';to say and STICK with something like ';it's only you'; ';. this guy wanted you. he got you. (wanted to be king. became king. doesn't wanna be king anymore.)





he's known the other girl for sometime and she's someone who won't give in to him. he leaves for a little while, gets ';out of the moment';. he's young, emotionally immature, prolly isn't even sure who he is himself. human instict kicks in. he wants what he can't have. (men always want women who do not submit to them and are emotionally strong.) this other girl, fits the profile.





he's been away from you. he forgets how great you are, cuz he's a shallow dimwit (excuse me, but i'm just being honest with you). and very frankly, someone who forgets a woman he's been with and promised so much to so quickly and/or is willing to give it up, doesn't deserve that girl.





i know it'll hurt. more than anyone can tell you. and no one will feel it like the way you do. and i'm not even saying it'll go away. it'll take time. you'll hurt, at nights, in solitary, even in crowds, but honetsly, this hurt, these nights, these silent tears, they'll prepapre you to ';see'; and ';appreciate'; the right guy, when he comes along. someone that would respect you and remeber you, cuz love in the larger scheme of things, is about desire grwoing into ';remebering, respecting and appreciating' the woman that you promised eternity to. and it's about having fights, and brawls, and waking up to the same darn face every morning, BUT....when one fine day, you wake up and DON'T see that ';darned'; face there anymore, your world shatters and you hurt like hell and there's nothing on earth that can make you feel better except that one, truly lovely face, that you'd die to have by your side.





that's love.
Love is more powerful than this. You are worth more than this. Please don't wait for him.
firstly....this goes 2 the river guy.....STOP ANSWERING EVERY QUESTION WITH THE SAME ANSWER... now.....the guyz obviously not cumin bac 2 u... so the best thing 2 do is....well.....either get over him....or try contacting me...cos i really don hav time now....im an expert with these kinda situations.....plzzz keep in touch...i promise i'll help
If he loves you he wouldn't have asked the other girl out. This guy in my opinion wants to enjoy sex with both of you, I know it is hard for you to dump him, but unless you want him for occasional sex leave him, the more you have sex with him the more you could get attached to him and the easier it will be for him to manipulate your feelings and emotions until you get hurt and suffer bad. You deserve better and, it is not your fault he is like that, that is just how he is and he will never change, and things will just get worse for you. Set yourself free from him, it is hard and you will hurt, but better hurt now then suffer more later on.
don't get yourself into any kind of mess this guy is not serouse and might worry you in the future forget him and move on
lookee here child, He has you on hold. If he will mess arround now, what will stop him when you are 8 months pregnant? Zip your pants up and dump that dork,Please.
no details.......just dump him and never get so drunk YOU forget the details
You are in very weak position in this case my friend, such triangle of love will come to mess. If the guys really a Man who has commitment and principles, he will never sleep or having relationship with other woman when he already have one.


Make decision, it will hurt but you`ll heal soon, before too late and You fallen in love with him too deep.


Remember, when a Man fallin` in love he would do anything to pleased his Baby, protect her from being hurt and tryin with his best to maintain her trust and confidence on him.


I know it my Friend coz I`m a man....
YOU SHOULD NOT SIT AROUND AND WAIT FOR HIM TO MAKE UP HIS MIND. IF HE LOVED YOU AND WANTED TO BE WITH ONLY YOU SHE COULD HAVE SAID ANYTHING AND IT WOULDNT HAVE MATTERED TO HIM. HE IS WAITING TO SEE IF THE OTHER GIRL WANTS TO HAVE A RELATIONSHIP WITH HIM OR NOT. IF THIS OTHER GIRL DOESNT WANT HIM THEN HE WANTS TO HAVE YOU TO FALL BACK ON. YOU DONT DESERVE FOR HIM TO DO THAT TO YOU. HE MUST HAVE ANOTHER DEFINITION OF LOVE. DONT WAIT ON HIM
You and him were in a relationship know as 'Friends with benefits'.





You dont deserve to be with that guy. He cant make his mind up and you're coming second best! No girl should come second best. You can do better than him! To me its seems like the guy was in love with the sex you and him had and not for real love. Don't run after him, let him come to you or try and get over it.
No, the guy don't love you, but is buying time, while enjoying you.
he may but he wants his cake and eat it 2 go have fun! he did! maybe then he will see the light!
i think he's taking chances with anyone and everyone who'll give him one..





bottom line: desperate to have a girlfriend who'll give him some good fun!





make a run for it and don't turn back
dude you seriously need to move on from him you deserve better, im not about to go into detail to get 10 points but im just guna say the point, move on hes playing you
don't wait for him. the other girl is the one he really wants, if he can get her you'll never hear from him again, if he doesn't he'll be calling you. you deserve better then someone's second choice.

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What is best piece of golf advice you have ever gotten to improve your score please don include head down or?

practice, i understand how important both those things areWhat is best piece of golf advice you have ever gotten to improve your score please don include head down or?
The best advice I got and used was spending more time on the golf course. I have straight-laced friends who will never take practice shots and never play extra holes at golf courses. These are the guys who spend hours on the range and never get break 90.





Obviously getting lessons and practicing on the range and practice green are important. But my game really took off after I started sneaking on golf courses and playing actual golf more often. Most scratch golfers learned as kids and played some golf in high school. I say this because high school golf is unlimited golf course time. Golf course time is very underrated. There is no substitute for real bunkers, decline/incline/sloped lies, various fairway widths, rough length, slow/fast greens鈥?br>




I also found this tip from David Toms to be the best putting tip. Count out how many seconds you think will take for the ball to get to the hole. Practice this from all different distances on a practice green and you鈥檇 be surprised how many seconds a ball needs to take to get to the hole from 30 feet. Getting rid of three putts will drop a lot of strokesWhat is best piece of golf advice you have ever gotten to improve your score please don include head down or?
Hold the club like your holding a bird(not to tight) don't try to kill the ball just try to hit it and FOLLOW THROUGH....Oh and have fun !!!
To hit a golf ball consistently you need to first always have a target for each practice shot. without that target you don't get enough feedback to know what needs changing. Picture in your mind every shot before you hit it. See how it flys and where it lands before you hit it.


Quick tips:


1. The toe of the club should point toward the sky at waist level on your backswing. Stop you swing at waist level and look at the club head. It should be perpendicular to the ground, not shut or open. Same position on the follow through; toe to the sky at waist level. This action shows a proper release.


2. On the downswing swing from the ground up; feet, knees, hips, then upper body.


3. If right handed, your right elbow should be ahead your hands on the downswing. Try to brush the pocket of your pants with your elbow before you release the club.


4. If right handed, left shoulder should be going up toward the sky coming into impact, while the hips turn to the left. Most golfers have the left shoulder going to the left with the hips which is a major cause of slicing. Look at pictures of golf swings in the major golf magazines of tour swings and you will see it.


5. Grip should mirror how your hands hang at your sides when standing relaxed. If you look down you will notice that both of your hands turn slightly inward almost identically. If you swing your arms up to waist level your thumbs and first finger will touch first. Slide the right hand forward and look at you hand position. that is how the hands should go on the grip. Left hand turned to the left and right hand turned to right. Most golfers grip the club with the left hand to far left and the right hand turned under the club too far. Until you get comfortable with this naturally positioned grip you will struggle with consistency because you hands are going to try to get back to that natural position, of opposing hands, at impact.
if your nota long hitter except the fact that you arent and hit it in the fairway but if you are work on keeping it in play, SHORT GAME SHORT GAME SHORT GAME
When going to the practice range pull out the short irons first to develop tempo in your swing. Use the same tempo as you go thru the bag up to your woods.


Pulling the woods out first tends to make you overswing, even on the short irons.


Tempo, tempo, tempo.
if you think you are too close to the ball get closer, it helps you to swing inside in as well as not topping or sculling ball, it helps you not to arm swing
';Your hands just go along for the ride.';





Taught me to stop ';casting'; my club.
The best piece of advice I have ever received is really simple. The first and one of the most important things is to keep your swing short and simple. Never let your backswing go past parallel, simple as that. That will help your accuracy and consistency. One more thing is, on your backswing keep your body still do not sway at all. It will keep your head behind the ball and let you clear your hips easier. Keep both of these in mind and they should help out!
The club head should be doing all the work, not you. If you can't feel the weight of the club head during your swing your timing is probably off.
Slow smooth swing. Let the club do all the work.
Course management, practicing of weak points, grip pressure, staying in the present, focusing on one shot at a time, and putting.





Course management: If you are playing a hard and narrow course, then you have to play smart, determine where you would like to hit the ball. If there is a hazard in your way but you know your ball is unable to make it across, then lay up on you tee shot.





Praticing weak points: Let's say that you short game is horrable, then you must practice different shots with different clubs and putting to make it better. The best advice that I ever got on practicing my short game was try to incorporate some different shots to make my game better. For example, if you are in the rough and the ball is sitting deep, then use a sand wedge or a lob wedge (60 degree), open the face all the way for a flop shot. You do not have to take the club all the back, just a short ways and come through like usual but the finish is not all the up either.





Grip pressure: This all varies on the style of grip that you are using. Remember there are three different styles of grip. Ten finger grip, interlocking grip, or the over lap. One key note on the grip is to make sure that it is laying in your fingers of the top hand.





Focus on one shot at a time: Simple, just ready yourself for the shot that is in front of you at the time.





Staying in the present: Focus on what is important during the moment, not what can happen if I win or I lose. Just stay focused on your present task.





Putting: Red zone-Get the ball to with in 3 feet of the hole. Lage up there for nice easy tap in. Yellow zone-Makeable putts but with practice. Green zone- Practice, practice, practice, even pros miss those short ones.
i would say the best advice i ever got was:





1. on a scale of 1-10, your grip pressure should be between 4-6





2. shaft of the putter leaning forward slightly at contact - to help promote a true roll instead of a skip
One is when i am around the green use a 7 iron and keep the ball lower instead of trying to get it up in the are chip and run is so much easier





the other thing is line your putt up with the name on the ball find you line and line the mark on your putt up with name then all you need to do is find the speed if you have the line right
Course Management. Play to your strengths. If you are very good from 130-150 yards. Play off the tee to get within that distance. If you hit 250-275 consistently off the tee with a driver, you may not want to play that on short par 4's. Play a 3 wood or long iron off the tee to set up your second shot. If you think one shot ahead, it can make a big difference.





Another good tip is to practice your weak points. If you are consistently missing greens, and chipping is your weak point, spend time practicing chipping. You would be surprised how many strokes you can save by learning how to be consistent with your chipping. It can save par in many cases and if you two chip consistently it can shave even more if you can get up and down.
Keep your spine straight.

The Best Advice For Boot Camp?

The best way to get through Marine Corps boot camp. I know there is now easy way. But what will make it easier on me to help me get through. I've wanted to be a Marine it's a family tradition pretty all my family has served atleast 20 yrs. But they want me to find out myself.


my MOS is 0311 (Riflemen)The Best Advice For Boot Camp?
Don't take it too seriously. Don't let it get inside your head.Try to keep your sense of humor but never laugh out loud. The DI's are playing a role. Always keep that in mind. They're not the monsters that they will appear to be. I met one of my DI's in the fleet a couple of years after I graduated. In boot camp, I thought that he was a certifiable psychopath but it turned out that he was actually a very nice guy. We became friends, sort of, he was still four ranks ahead of me. He'd invite me to his house for barbecues and things like that. He even lent me his car a couple of times, etc..





You'll be under a lot of stress at first but it will get easier as you go along. First phase was a nightmare but third phase felt like a cake walk. I was actually enjoying boot camp in my last couple of weeks.


Make sure that you're physically fit before you go. That's one less thing to worry about. A lot of guys who show up out of shape worry about PT. That's an extra stressor that you can do without. Being fit will give you confidence. And it's pretty much the only real prep that you can do. You can't really prepare yourself for the initial shock but you'll recover quickly.





Keep your wits about you, keep your mouth shut and your eyes and ears open. Whatever they tell you to do, do it enthusiastically.The Best Advice For Boot Camp?
Go in with a positive can do attitude. Strive to stand out in all the activities. You can't change what transpires in boot camp so accept it. Don't worry too much about it you will do fine. You will be proud that you made it when you graduate and will remember the experience for the rest of your. This is about what I told my grandson and he got through it without a hitch. Semper Fi and the best of luck A Marine strives to be outstanding not hide like army pouges.
Play the game. Don't try to stand out. You'll stand out by fitting in.
Learn to hold your piss.
Get out while you still can.
Here is some good boot camp info for you to read.


http://lavadog23.webs.com/bootcampinfo.h鈥?/a>

Clearing sinus & lung congesstion? I am wondering what is the best way to do this? Any advice? P.S. I smoke...

I read to boil water in a fair sized pot, put a towel over my head and breath in the steam. I am going to try that later. Has anyone ever done this? Does it work fairly well? And please suggest any other ideas or medacines/remedies you might know of to get rid of it. Thanks a bunch!Clearing sinus %26amp; lung congesstion? I am wondering what is the best way to do this? Any advice? P.S. I smoke...
If you suffer from sinus problems the worst thing you can do to yourself is to smoke.





Quite clearly your sinus problems are not that bad because you are still smoking. Smoking would normally aggravate your sinus problems to a totally intolerable level and make you very ill so obviously your sinus problems are only very mild.Clearing sinus %26amp; lung congesstion? I am wondering what is the best way to do this? Any advice? P.S. I smoke...
Steam helps, don't burn yourself tho! Perhaps a doctor would be a good idea? Quit smoking... fresh air... depending on how bad it is, nasal sprays can help, but better off with meds the doc prescribes, because correct treatment depends on the cause more than just the symptoms...
Number one stop smoking, but if you can not for whatever reason try this. There is an over the counter nasal spray called SIMPLY SALINE. (no chemilcals just saline and distilled water) Use this in the morning, at lunch, and before bed. This should help and with regular use prevent congestion along with preventing sickness. If this is something that has been lingering and your mucus is colored in any way you might have an infection and need to get on some antibiotics to clear it up. Still use SIMPLY SALINE on a regular bases. I have never felt better.
try adding eucalyptus leaves to the water after it is removed from the heat...steep but do not boil leaves


for sinus you might try a nose bidet
Hi try to eat something w/ curry in it such as a thai dish.





OR something with a natural spice such as peppers or chili.

Seriously, what is the best advice you can give a recently divorced person to be cheerful about the future?

If they're feeling really down on their luck ....Seriously, what is the best advice you can give a recently divorced person to be cheerful about the future?
I would say that they needed to think about what they still have, and what they WILL have, and how things are happening for a reason. Tell your friend that one day he will look back and feel no pain.Seriously, what is the best advice you can give a recently divorced person to be cheerful about the future?
Things could be a lot worse the ***** could come back.
Go out with some friends get really drunk and really laid!!
From someone that's been there. Just be grateful that you don't have to put up with all of the anger and attiudes that go along with it. And that you can find someone that appreicates you for who you REALLY are.





Good Luck my Friend!
Dont chase replace
you cant really tell them anything... but just be there for them and if they need help... help them... and talk to them... take them out shopping or something else... my friend got divorced and i talked to her and now shes fine
Yesterday was as bad as it gets, the furture will be as good as it gets. (my fav movie, As Good As It Gets)
No second guesses. Follow your instincts.
Think of it this way - every sencond marriage ends with divorce these days...so you had 50% chances to begin with and you shouldn't feel THAT down about it. We all make bad choices or don't do enough to mend our relationships. Besides there's another percentage issue - it wasn't all up to you - again 50% of responsibility is on the other person.





THere is always hope, hope never dies. You could find someone who's been hurt/had a bad experience just like you, God knows there are many, and try to share the healing process with that person.





And again, never give up and never blame yourself a 100% - it's just not realistic!





Here's some links, I hope at least one is helpful
You know, some people think divorce is the worst thing in the world for the entire family. My parents divorced when I was 5, and my sister was 7. Neither one of us really gave a damn, not because of our ages, but because our parents absolutely hated eachother, and what kind of envoirnment is that to grow up in?





My point is divorce is honestly over-rated to be the next individualized Holocaust or something, when really, you should be looking at it as freedom. Congratulations, you are your own person again! No more answering to someone else's every whim!





My advice to you is this. Do I think you should be finding another relationship right away? No way, give it a couple of months. Find out what it REALLY means to be single in a POSITIVE light. Think of all of the money you're saving in the end, how much free time you have for your friends, how much more you can get done around the house, etc. That's a good way to balance out who you are, and get comfortable with that for the next time around when you DO decide to venture out for love. It probably will make the relationship stronger due to the confidence you grew in the end.





Good luck. =)
Go get some, man.
This is just from my heart so I know this will cause many to roll their eyes. I think that God has a plan for everyone and this happened for a reason. Maybe you'll be better prepared for your next relationship (which may or not be a marriage). Just use this experience to build you into a stronger %26amp; better person. Have no regrets, do not live in the past %26amp; look to the future. You are never alone.


And look at how many people have come here to give you fairly sound advice, hopefully you have that many friends in real life that will stand by your side.
Don't worry you'll find happiness again!!! It is better being divorced than to be fighting and unhappy all the time.
You are using this season to grow stronger in life, as a person. This will not only empower you, and make you feel better, but will make you more attractive to all...





Soon - and I say BEFORE you want it - you will be having to turn down interested parties, for potential dates... until that time when you feel it is right.





Good luck!
how can cheer? Let the time heal the pain
things can't get any worse
..





Well, now. You can keep your kitchenette


sparkling clean, now. Make sure the lint


count is low in the living room. All the


pictures perfectly adjusted in the hall


and the bedroom. Organized sock drawer,


bathroom like a ';clean room';, where


scientists do studies and experiments


in a totally germ-free, particle-free environment.


Clothes iin closet all arranged by style


and color.





OR





Leave empty drink cans everywhere, stained


unattended on the range and in the


microwave, dirty clothes in the hallway, the living room, and


the clean clothes all over your bed. Magazines


and CD's all in disarray. Trash cans filled


to capacity.





Meaning? It's YOURS now, all YOURS,


and you might like it alot.











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First off, you got out of a situation that wasn't happy (for one or both of you but it doesn't matter which one it was). You have your whole life ahead of you. You should look at it as your ';luck'; is up, not down. You were in a routine and as comfortable as it may have seemed, it wasn't working. Hey, you are not alone. If it doesn't work, go on with your life. Consider a trip with friends to the mountains or a beach. Go to a park and play Frisbee with your dog. Go bowling (sounds boring but it is fun!) with a friend. See a movie with a friend. You get the idea. You only live once. Do something to go forward. You'll get over it!
Try to think about somthing happy or go out and do somthing fun
hit the bars kid
take a ';me'; vacation!